My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels like as married people, we are exempt. He looks at it like, they invited us to stay, and they know we are married so it should be fine. What do you think, is it ok? or no?
Having Sex at someones elses house....
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As long as you aren't being obvious about it (leaving any sorts of marks, being loud, etc) I don't see why it's inherently a problem. Of course, if you're not comfortable with it, then you have every right to say no.
07/06/2012
I am with you Tickle and Giggle!! I feel uncomfortable too! Especially family homes. I just can't relax! Not gonna happen! So we end up getting hotels a lot more than staying with family or friends.
07/06/2012
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Its okay if you are quite about it..LOL
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels
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My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels like as married people, we are exempt. He looks at it like, they invited us to stay, and they know we are married so it should be fine. What do you think, is it ok? or no?
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07/06/2012
I feel uncomfortable as well, I'm always afraid to get stuff on sheets/etc. I just feel like its rude....but men then just don't care, most of them anyways, lol..I know mine doesnt care.
07/06/2012
So take it to a hidden nook in their neighbors yard. That would solve it.
07/06/2012
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I feel uncomfortable doing it.
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels
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My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels like as married people, we are exempt. He looks at it like, they invited us to stay, and they know we are married so it should be fine. What do you think, is it ok? or no?
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07/07/2012
we used to when we were first married but now it seems more of a hassle. I've talked to people before that enjoy doing it at other peoples houses with the idea that getting caught is a turn on
07/07/2012
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See i could not even then. Injust feel plain ackward. I would rather go to a friends house or rent a room or something.
Originally posted by
dontbackdown02
we used to when we were first married but now it seems more of a hassle. I've talked to people before that enjoy doing it at other peoples houses with the idea that getting caught is a turn on
07/08/2012
Depends on who it is. In any case we are SILENT when we do. When we go to my inlaws, we kind of figure that they know we have sex because we have KIDS. So as long as we're not disturbing anyone and not making a mess, why not?
07/08/2012
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For us we do it - and have no issue doing it. If a couple visiting us (or a friend who was single for that matter who found a playdate) wanted to get it on in our house please enjoy and have fun - put your sheets in the wash if you make a mess and same for the towels.
Originally posted by
Mrs. Tickle and Giggle
My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels
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My husband and I have family everywhere, so we usually travel quite a bit. I am not comfortable at all having sex in someone else home. I feel like its rude and absolutely innappropriate. Well the hubby on the other hand could care less. He feels like as married people, we are exempt. He looks at it like, they invited us to stay, and they know we are married so it should be fine. What do you think, is it ok? or no?
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07/09/2012
got to be quiet which sucks for us
07/09/2012
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See this is his answer for when we visit our parents. Especially my mom, since she gave us dildos for our anniversary. But is still seems wrong.
Originally posted by
SneakersAndPearls
Depends on who it is. In any case we are SILENT when we do. When we go to my inlaws, we kind of figure that they know we have sex because we have KIDS. So as long as we're not disturbing anyone and not making a mess, why not?
07/09/2012
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