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Can some one help with some ideas.on spicing up mine n my hubbys sex life?
06/23/2012
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Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by sexymommywest
Can some one help with some ideas.on spicing up mine n my hubbys sex life?
I'd love to help, but I'm in the same boat. I am 10 yrs younger than my husband (he's 52) and his libido is LOW. Mine is high, I'm in my prime I guess. I need some advise too!!
06/24/2012
Contributor: sexymommywest sexymommywest
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Originally posted by Noelle
I'd love to help, but I'm in the same boat. I am 10 yrs younger than my husband (he's 52) and his libido is LOW. Mine is high, I'm in my prime I guess. I need some advise too!!
My husband is 27. But we both work. So were tired n everything. But when we do its the same things over again n its like I dont want sex with him anymore... But I love him n I dont know wat to do.
06/24/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
me too!!! someone help there is a 19 year difference here!
06/24/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
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Originally posted by sexymommywest
My husband is 27. But we both work. So were tired n everything. But when we do its the same things over again n its like I dont want sex with him anymore... But I love him n I dont know wat to do.
same here girl
06/24/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
Plan out a few mild, sexy scenarios you KNOW you will be able to pull off and follow through with comfortably. Once you have it planned, you are able to set a day and time for you to perform that scenario with your husband and get anything yo need. Then surprise him---but in a great way, trust me--the anticipation of knowing there is a SENSUAL--not sexual activity that he is unaware of is quite a turn on!!! Good luck, I wish you the best!!
06/24/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
It sounds to me like it is time for some introspection. When you think about being together sexually what are you doing? What are those things that get you going? What are the things you haven't done or haven't done in a while that you want to do? I'm sure when you get to thinking you will have more questions that you can ask yourself. Then when you are talking some time, share with your partner what you've been thinking. Ask for their thoughts and ideas. Be sure to be positive, not critical!
06/24/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
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Originally posted by Gracie
It sounds to me like it is time for some introspection. When you think about being together sexually what are you doing? What are those things that get you going? What are the things you haven't done or haven't done in a while that you ... more
I second this. Communication is huge in a relationship. You have to be able to have talks like this with your partner and figure out what can be done to improve the situation. Sometimes it means trying new things and sometimes it means doing things again that you haven't done in a while.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Noelle
I'd love to help, but I'm in the same boat. I am 10 yrs younger than my husband (he's 52) and his libido is LOW. Mine is high, I'm in my prime I guess. I need some advise too!!
I'm 11 years older than my wife (I'll be 58 soon). My libido has always been higher than hers - but her capacity is higher when we do have sex.

Maintaining my edge has taken two very important 'assists'. 1st I started on Testosterone replacement therapy about 4 years ago. 2nd I regularly use Cialis.

Better living through chemistry!
06/24/2012
Contributor: sexykiss sexykiss
okay this is how it goes when i want to have sex, ill tell her im in the mood she will say shes to tired doesnt want to. so then i get mad, the next day ill tell her again she says shes not in the mood again, the next day ill ask her she will say okay but i have to rub her back and put lotion on her back, then after we have sex. there is nothing like romantic or anything to that. i feel like its a job that i gotta do. im getting so sick of it.
06/25/2012