The New Intimacy

How many ways do you contact your loved one in a day to "keep it hot" and stay "connected"

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
With all the modern tools to keep in touch, how many do you use on an average day to connect to your significant other? Do you think staying VERY in touch keeps it "spiced up"?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Land Line Phone
padmeamidala , AngelvMaynard , sarki , married with children , aliceinthehole
5
Text's
Gunsmoke , Ansley , AngelvMaynard , sexyintexas , mcl272 , LostBoy988 , ZenaidaMacroura , RedGoddess , Taylor , Redboxbaby , amandaco2011 , Endocott , ms.anon , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Lummox , Rage Demon , joelb42 , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , bayosgirl , Kitka , AMorris89 , Noelle
22
IM's
MaryExy , AngelvMaynard , LostBoy988 , Taylor , Lummox , Rage Demon , joelb42 , Kat and Aaron(aaron) , AMorris89
9
IM photos
MaryExy , AngelvMaynard , mcl272 , RedGoddess , ms.anon , AMorris89
6
Email
MaryExy , Gunsmoke , padmeamidala , AngelvMaynard , Redboxbaby , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Lummox , AMorris89 , deltalima
9
Video Calls
MaryExy , Rage Demon
2
Leave Wirtten Notes
Gunsmoke , padmeamidala , mcl272 , RedGoddess , zracer , Redboxbaby , Endocott , ms.anon
8
Other?
MaryExy , sexyintexas , Naughty Student , potstickers , tortilla , Kitka
6
Total votes: 67 (32 voters)
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Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
LDR, and I can't litter my phone with an out-of-area number yet. Those are the only ones I can use. I have an IM app on my phone, so he can contact me whenever he wants... almost like texting, but no fees.
07/11/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
we text constantly
07/11/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Our phones are going off every five minutes or so when work is calm enough to do so. We talk about what we did and what we're going to do. It's a lot of fun and keeps us connected.
07/11/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
He is on the road a lot. So we call eachother 7 or 8 times a day as well as text daily.
07/11/2011
Contributor: LostBoy988 LostBoy988
Depends on where we are and what is going on.
07/11/2011
Contributor: RedGoddess RedGoddess
i like to leave written notes for my man wheather it be in the morning, or a note in his lunchbag for work. we txt throughout the day if we are apart, and we will txt photos sometimes
07/11/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy works and the only time I text him is to ask him what time he will be home for dinner so I can prepare it on time. He can't be bothered by my texts and honestly I think today, texting is so overrated. Especially a lot of young adults (but not restricted to this category and I am not trying to overgeneralize either), they can't do a days job without texting all day, which makes them look very incomeptent in front of customers.

Sorry for the rant, urgh!

Anyways, no we do not text BUT, we are very physical when we are together. We constantly touch each other, we do a lot of eye gazing and verbal teasing. It is fun and keeps things exciting.
07/11/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Just by phone
07/11/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I don't like the idea of calling my husband at the office, unless it is urgent. I don't want everyone looking at him like his wife is a pain in the ass and being clingy. (I do text him and email him and he responds at his convenience).

I have seen it in the office before, with women calling every 40mins. or so. The rest of the guys in the office start looking at that guy like he is a whipped little man and they stop taking him seriously. I have also seen it with some women whose husbands call them every second. I would rather see and or hear the text than the phone call thing all day.
07/13/2011
Contributor: amandaco2011 amandaco2011
LDR, the phone is our life line.
07/13/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
I send letters, text, and do video conferencing (I forgot to click that one).
07/13/2011
Contributor: joelb42 joelb42
We text and IM all day long
10/13/2012
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
leave notes around the house
10/17/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Texts and phone calls. I wish he'd leave me written notes but he doesn't like to for some reason.
10/17/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Texts and cell phone chats.
10/17/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
With all the modern tools to keep in touch, how many do you use on an average day to connect to your significant other? Do you think staying VERY in touch keeps it "spiced up"?
usually text or calls.
02/16/2013