It would help a whole lot if you gave us more details! What types of things does she like? Not all mothers like the same things. What type of budget are you planning on? Are you asking for suggestions from EF only or from anywhere? Is your mom someone you'd be comfortable buying something like massage products for or no? Or would she even be comfortable receiving such items? Is she comfortable receiving something like a massager, such as the Smart Wand, which doesn't completely come across as a vibrator, but it is something every girl will think of if it's given to her. But it looks much more like a body massager, so it can be gifted, especially since it's so luxurious! I bought the medium one for my mom -- she has sore muscles in her back near the shoulder where she was in a wreck, so it wasn't gifted in a sexual way.

There's bath and body products on EF or massage products. Those are the only things I can recommend from here if you're shopping here for someone like your mother. But you have to remember that not every mom loves bath and body items. There's lotions here too such as Dona's. If you want to gift her bath/body items, I recommend maybe making a nice basket out of the Dona lotions and body washes.

If you would buy massage products for your mom, I recommend Shunga's. Anything from Shunga is good, IMO. They have amazing massage oils, but these usually have sexual references on the labels.

EF used to sell little makeup sets, but they're always out of stock, or they would make nice gifts for the mom who likes makeup. Too bad their shower cap and body puff (filled with shimmer dust) is not in stock or they could be combined with the bath products to make an excellent bath & body gift basket!

If you aren't only shopping for her here at EF, then there's a lot more options, but it's pretty impossible to recommend much since we know nothing of her preferences. T-shirts? Is there a band or something your mom is really fond of? For instance, I've gifted a Willie Nelson shirt to my mom and for Mother's day, one gift I'm getting her is a Duck Dynasty shirt -- we're big DD fans!

Okay, as far as your anniversary, that one's impossible to give many accurate suggestions too because you did not tell us a single thing about your spouse, what their gender is and what they like. Dildos? Small or large? Beginner or not? Glass or steel or silicone? G-spot tip or not? Or something more friendly like a bullet? Anal or no? If it's your anniversary, a Shunga gift basket might be the perfect choice, depending on what you guys like. I have almost all the Shunga items available -- most of them I bought in the gift set and I love almost every one of them. You could make a very romantic night for your spouse if you done the whole 9 yards with massage and all. Not everybody likes that though.

For instance, I prefer a night out doing something special with my partner and then having anniversary sex rather than something like a massage. That's just me though.

If you give us more to work with, I'll come back and see if there's anything I could suggest that would be more helpful to ya.

Thanks for the suggestions Evie.amor. I will do the massage thing for sure and I will look in to the other as well. We haven' tried one before so it might be interesting to see how it works.