Kissing.

Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
Me and my wife barely kiss during sex. My breathe is always minty clean and fresh. Trust me, I brush like crazy because I was convinced that it might have been the reason. But no matter what it just doesn't happen. We have been together for ten years, and I'm affraid she's just lost intrest in me. I know I have said otherwise in previous post, but can the fire really die out? Or is kissing really not that big of a deal?
12/29/2011
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Contributor: Subbi Subbi
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
Me and my wife barely kiss during sex. My breathe is always minty clean and fresh. Trust me, I brush like crazy because I was convinced that it might have been the reason. But no matter what it just doesn't happen. We have been together for ten ... more
My fiance and I don't have crazy make out sessions or anything while we have sex. A few kisses here or there. For us kissing is just something we do constantly and its not really important when we have sex. For me most of the kissing is for when were not having sex. When we are I'd much rather him do other things since kissing just isn't a turn on for me. Have you tried talking to your wife about it ?
12/29/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
Neither of us are very accomplished contortionists so given body size and positions, kissing while penetrating is very difficult.
12/29/2011
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
My wife loves to kiss during sex. Sometimes the positioning makes it difficult, but it really does help you feel close. But it's also a person's own like/dislike. I had a girlfriend before I was married who hated kissing during sex, but loved kissing other times.
12/30/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
sometimes. She does not like my facial hair as much as I do. So we dont always kiss. not my choice. I keep it trimmed, so it should not be a problem. Plus guys are supposed to be hairy, right?
12/31/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
I love to kiss my husband... when we're not having sex.

It could be more than just fresh breath. Sometimes our breathing isn't synchronized and he's exhaling in my nose, which is odd. Sometimes having him that close while kissing makes me feel claustrophobic.

Kissing is a much more upright activity for me.
12/31/2011
Contributor: kfdarling kfdarling
I think over time kissing changes for couples. It can still be a great way to get her in the mood but you have to start with some wooing to set mood.
01/04/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
We almost never kiss during sex. We might kiss before hand, but for me it's an activity that gets forgotten and pushed aside in the heat of the moment unless he initiates the kiss. I can think of places I'd rather have his mouth when we're getting it on. Especially my neck, which I consider a much more intimate place to be kissed than my lips.

Different people view kissing different ways. For me, it's not as intimate an act as kissing necks or lacing fingers. You should ask your wife what kissing means to her at this point in her life.
01/04/2012
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
i guess it honestly depends on the people/couple. but we do kiss during sex, its an intimate act that adds to the love and pleasure
01/04/2012
Contributor: EnChAnTiNg EnChAnTiNg
Quote:
Originally posted by Rod Ronald
Me and my wife barely kiss during sex. My breathe is always minty clean and fresh. Trust me, I brush like crazy because I was convinced that it might have been the reason. But no matter what it just doesn't happen. We have been together for ten ... more
I think you will get a lot different answer because everyone feels differently about kissing. My husband and I have been married for 5 years, and yes, for us the kissing has sort of died out with sex. Not because feelings have changed, but because it almost seems like it takes away from the sex. It can be difficult to try to keep up lip action while you are trying to synchronize movements and breathe. So for me, it is not that big of a deal. BUT if my husband had an issue with it, and told me that he felt I am losing interest because I no longer kiss him as much during sex, I would make and effort to try to change that. So you're best bet might be to just ask her about it, because it may not even be crossing her mind, and she may not even realize it is bothering you.
01/10/2012
Contributor: blackadeezee blackadeezee
For us it seriously depends on the type of sex we are having. Some nights out mouths never touch, others we are constantly kissing. Sometimes its in between.
04/25/2012