is it ok to spice up your marriage by adding a extra lady or man? or is that just asking for a problem?
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04/21/2011
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It depends on your marriage really. It's something that you and your husband would have to talk about before actually going through with it. It does work for some couples, but for others all it does is bring trouble. I've never done it before, so I only have limited suggestions, but I would make sure there are ground rules first, and absolutely stick with them.
04/22/2011
As long as it is something that you both agree on. And if it is a friend of yalls it can get kind of sticky sometimes if feelings get involved, jealousy can quickly become a factor.
04/22/2011
Not for us. Anything else is ok, but adding someone else to actually participate is not up for discussion.
04/22/2011
I think that adding an extra man or women would just cause problems. I believe that sex and intamacy with a person that you thought you did not have feeling for but then you add that person and feeling start to grow with sex.
04/22/2011
I think it depends on the couple , but it needs to be talked about alot and not just mentioned once.
04/22/2011
Honestly, I think it's wrong. You should only think about your husband or wife and no one else, if you do, it's adultery. My husband said that he wouldn't mind having another gilr in the mix and I was apalled! I know that I'm not that pretty and definitely not that skinny or good at sex or anything, but that was extremely low for me. I know that he didn't mean it that way maybe, but it made me know that he wants someone else in his bed too. Thinking about anyone else but your spouse, to me, is a sin.
04/27/2011
For me and my husband, it wouldn't be right. Based on my faith I don't agree with it. However there many people who have opened there marriage and it doesnt bother me what others choose to do as that is not my place.
05/22/2011
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You need a very VERY strong bond! If you have doubts, then do not do it! If you ever accused your partner of cheating, then by all means DON'T DO IT! You need to trust eachother 110% and know that what ever happens doesn't change the way you feel about each other.
Originally posted by
luvendia
is it ok to spice up your marriage by adding a extra lady or man? or is that just asking for a problem?
12/29/2011
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Me and my husband consider that a form of cheating
Originally posted by
luvendia
is it ok to spice up your marriage by adding a extra lady or man? or is that just asking for a problem?
12/30/2011
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I agree 110%.
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DancerLove
Honestly, I think it's wrong. You should only think about your husband or wife and no one else, if you do, it's adultery. My husband said that he wouldn't mind having another gilr in the mix and I was apalled! I know that I'm not that
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Honestly, I think it's wrong. You should only think about your husband or wife and no one else, if you do, it's adultery. My husband said that he wouldn't mind having another gilr in the mix and I was apalled! I know that I'm not that pretty and definitely not that skinny or good at sex or anything, but that was extremely low for me. I know that he didn't mean it that way maybe, but it made me know that he wants someone else in his bed too. Thinking about anyone else but your spouse, to me, is a sin.
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12/30/2011
It really depends, on what both of you want. If it's a fantasy both of you have had, and there's a lot of communication go for it. If not, be careful, because it could cause more harm than good.
12/30/2011
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