I'm getting close to 50. The problem falls on my part, I'm always busy with my chores around the house. Having a mild case of OCD makes it worse, I need everything perfectly clean and tidy. By the time I'm done busying, I'll relax a bit and shower, usually it's already 2:30 to 3 am. If I'm not too exhausted, I'll usually wake him up in the middle of the night to get intimate, and he's OK with that.

I've started experiencing some signs of Perimenopause, it is a major reason that's affecting my sex drive, feels like I'm on a roller-coaster right now. My husband sometimes joke about it and said that he needs to find a girlfriend. He'll get grumpy if he doesn't get to have sex with me on an interval of 2 to 3 weeks.