We don't have young kids anymore. All grown and working now.
However I can emphasis with your situation.
When our daughter was young, Ow would read or sing her to sleep in her own room. I used our bedroom also for home office so no way she could fall asleep in our bed. My adding machine and music would go on past her bedtime.

The issue I had was, Ow falling asleep in her room and I had to wait for her to awake and return to ours. So we usually did our love making after 2 am. On the rare occasions she returned to our bed early it was .

RockDoc, perhaps you (if not already) have to do the spooning position quietly and very gently as to not rock the bed. less

Ok. So this topic is very near and dear to me since we have two small children. One of our children sleeps in her room and the other can't seem to get out of my bed. I know what you are thinking. Why did you ever let them in your bed? Some of you know exactly what I mean. That said, it happened. This has spawned creativity in trying to find intimate time. Sometimes it is setting an alarm to get up early or hiding in a spare moment behind a locked door.

Share your experiences and ways you have found to keep things fun with young children in the house less