So in an attempt not to hijack another thread(using a dildo to finish your wife) the question I have to the women is, would it be better to start with the dildo and finish au natural. Or vice versa. We use vibrators and toys but external only so far. And any preference as to size? Close to mine or larger?
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So is it better to start out with a dildo or end with one?
09/04/2017
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I know you are looking for in put from the ladies - so I'll be brief.
We just go with the flow - sometimes the dildo comes first, sometimes I do - and often both! Almost all of our dildos are bigger than me - but that doesn't seem to matter - there's enough elasticity to accommodate both.
Good question, it'll be interesting to hear what the ladies say
We just go with the flow - sometimes the dildo comes first, sometimes I do - and often both! Almost all of our dildos are bigger than me - but that doesn't seem to matter - there's enough elasticity to accommodate both.
Good question, it'll be interesting to hear what the ladies say
09/04/2017
I appreciate the input. My question to you would be did she think of it or did you suggest it? I am truly curious what the ladies do think on this topic.
09/04/2017
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100% of everything we have ever done has been suggested by me!
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Jetta918
I appreciate the input. My question to you would be did she think of it or did you suggest it? I am truly curious what the ladies do think on this topic.
But I am a very good listener. After a session she might mention something in passing that I take as the lead for a next step. Ex. like many we started with clit vibes - I was pretty much convinced that she would reject anything for insertion - except the real thing of course. Wrong!
After bringing her to a bigger than normal orgasm using my fingers and a clit vibe (back in the day when orgasm was all she thought she could have) - she commented that it was good to have something to squeeze when the clit vibe brought her to orgasm. This was the genesis of our rabbit vibe days - a combination of insertion and clit-vibe.
She loved it and we took off from there. There are probably a dozen or more examples of 'off-the-cuff comments' that motivated a completely new kind of toy.
An exception was the PureWand - it's so different than anything else, that I was not at all sure she would go for it. I actually gave it to her with a printout of reviews by other uses and told her to figure it out and teach me - I went on a business trip and came back to 'The Gusher' - she loved it - still does 10+ years later!
Listen to her body and mind, and if she's open to new things like my Queen - you can't go wrong. If you do - laugh it off and move on to something new!
09/05/2017
I'll agree with communication all the way. It's more important than anything else in the relationship.
09/05/2017
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We love to use dildos during foreplay. Although we have 'slimmer' and 'larger' options, nothing can compare with my boyfriend's manhood. Though, he personally loves to use a bigger dildo on me. It's more about visual enjoyment for him, I think.
Originally posted by
Jetta918
So in an attempt not to hijack another thread(using a dildo to finish your wife) the question I have to the women is, would it be better to start with the dildo and finish au natural. Or vice versa. We use vibrators and toys but external only so far.
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So in an attempt not to hijack another thread(using a dildo to finish your wife) the question I have to the women is, would it be better to start with the dildo and finish au natural. Or vice versa. We use vibrators and toys but external only so far. And any preference as to size? Close to mine or larger?
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09/06/2017
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Never fear about duplicate threads. IMO people like new current ones . Some members avoid "ancient " ones .
Originally posted by
Jetta918
So in an attempt not to hijack another thread(using a dildo to finish your wife) the question I have to the women is, would it be better to start with the dildo and finish au natural. Or vice versa. We use vibrators and toys but external only so far.
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So in an attempt not to hijack another thread(using a dildo to finish your wife) the question I have to the women is, would it be better to start with the dildo and finish au natural. Or vice versa. We use vibrators and toys but external only so far. And any preference as to size? Close to mine or larger?
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Depends what he's doing. If he's playing too long with one of his toys, I'll reach for a dildo. Then I'll do him when he's ready. If hadn't had enough I'll dildo again. Like Lena, my preference is him though .
His choice is to dildo me after vibing,then take his turn. Says he enjoys a "hot freshly f***ed juicy p*ssy
The answer to your size inquiry: all our dildos are larger than him. Some quite larger
Is that what you wanted to hear .
09/06/2017
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I was simply curious if there was a preference. I figure everyone is different, but it's always a better option (imo) to have a understanding of a topic prior to talking with a partner about it. The more information makes the conversation less awkward. I appreciate the insight though.
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OH&W, Lovebears
Never fear about duplicate threads. IMO people like new current ones . Some members avoid "ancient " ones .
Depends what he's doing. If he's playing too long with one of his toys, I'll reach for a dildo. Then I'll do ... more
Depends what he's doing. If he's playing too long with one of his toys, I'll reach for a dildo. Then I'll do ... more
Never fear about duplicate threads. IMO people like new current ones . Some members avoid "ancient " ones .
Depends what he's doing. If he's playing too long with one of his toys, I'll reach for a dildo. Then I'll do him when he's ready. If hadn't had enough I'll dildo again. Like Lena, my preference is him though .
His choice is to dildo me after vibing,then take his turn. Says he enjoys a "hot freshly f***ed juicy p*ssy
The answer to your size inquiry: all our dildos are larger than him. Some quite larger
Is that what you wanted to hear . less
Depends what he's doing. If he's playing too long with one of his toys, I'll reach for a dildo. Then I'll do him when he's ready. If hadn't had enough I'll dildo again. Like Lena, my preference is him though .
His choice is to dildo me after vibing,then take his turn. Says he enjoys a "hot freshly f***ed juicy p*ssy
The answer to your size inquiry: all our dildos are larger than him. Some quite larger
Is that what you wanted to hear . less
09/06/2017
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Lena eden,I think that is what I had I'm my mind as well. Thank you for the insight!
Originally posted by
Lena Eden
We love to use dildos during foreplay. Although we have 'slimmer' and 'larger' options, nothing can compare with my boyfriend's manhood. Though, he personally loves to use a bigger dildo on me. It's more about visual enjoyment
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We love to use dildos during foreplay. Although we have 'slimmer' and 'larger' options, nothing can compare with my boyfriend's manhood. Though, he personally loves to use a bigger dildo on me. It's more about visual enjoyment for him, I think.
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09/06/2017
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Yes LE ,
Originally posted by
Lena Eden
We love to use dildos during foreplay. Although we have 'slimmer' and 'larger' options, nothing can compare with my boyfriend's manhood. Though, he personally loves to use a bigger dildo on me. It's more about visual enjoyment
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more
We love to use dildos during foreplay. Although we have 'slimmer' and 'larger' options, nothing can compare with my boyfriend's manhood. Though, he personally loves to use a bigger dildo on me. It's more about visual enjoyment for him, I think.
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Most if not all men love seeing dildo shows
And listening to the lovely sounds
09/08/2017
you shuuold try DP coming at the ending with a man and a dildo.
10/05/2017
I agree it varies depending on the night. My wife isn’t completely comfortable with talking about using dildos on her or really planning on using them. She is pretty shy about sex altogether and I was the 1st to ever give her a orgasim during intercourse and she says she just prefers my penis, however I love using dildos on her and I get very turned on watching her cum again and again! I love to alternate between the dildos and myself and that gets her flowing like a river, which is so tasty! ??
01/14/2018
Taz Demann
I start out with a large dildo to ensure she has several orgasms before I use my member, a good man finishes last after ensuring that his partner got what they needed to be satisfied.
09/08/2018
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