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Threesomes with an ex.

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Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I know threesomes aren't for everyone, but we enjoy them. It turns out that his ex is turned on by the idea, I think she's cute (but we haven't met yet). And they just struck up a conversation after not having spoken for 10 years.

I don't think that I'm concerned about the situation, they'll have some things that they remember from back in the day where I'll be out of the loop, but otherwise it seems like it could be really fun.

I'm wondering if anyone else has been in this situation, or done it before. Whether it was planned or on a whim. How did it go?

(Also her and I are in contact with each other too so everyone is in the loop and she is super nice about making sure it wouldn't screw up anything in our marriage)
03/06/2013
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Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
In my opinion, I would never do it. I would read into it wrong. If it were my other half that mentioned it, I would feel that they still have feelings for their ex.

I would prefer someone that I know we will never have to see again or worry about having them try to interfere. I would only do a threesome once to fulfill hubby's fantasy.
03/06/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
We've had many more good experiences than bad with threesomes and it's part of how we work in our marriage. This isn't about pleasing hubby as much as we both love it.
I guess I'm secure enough that his feelings for me are stronger and she's really excited to play with another girl which satifies my end of the situation!
03/06/2013
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Had two threesomes in college, both times it was with my current GF at the time and the same ex-girlfriend both times. Neither one got terribly awkward, but I have to say neither experience was as great as I would have fantasized it being. The second one was pretty damn good though.
03/07/2013
Contributor: hotinpink hotinpink
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Originally posted by CutiePatootie
I know threesomes aren't for everyone, but we enjoy them. It turns out that his ex is turned on by the idea, I think she's cute (but we haven't met yet). And they just struck up a conversation after not having spoken for 10 ... more
I wouldn't recommend bringing an ex of either of yours into your sex life. Old feelings could come back. It's not something I'd risk. However, if you don't think that will happen, then go for it.
03/07/2013
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
No freaking way.
03/08/2013
Contributor: CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
Update: Her and I met (we all got together), and we have a ton of stuff in common. So I went for it. So far it's probably one of the top threesomes we've ever had. And I think it's only going to get better, we're meeting again in a few weeks. One of the nice things is she doesn't live too close so it looks like it's going in the direction of getting together every once in a while when our schedules can do it. Also, there's like zero weirdness and hubby is joking that he's going to be the odd one out sometimes because we're getting along so well.
03/09/2013