I have done it with a girl twice. i didnt even know her that long went out on 2 or 3 dates and never even had sex with her. we where webcam and idk how it started but she started and then she wanted to see me i showed her my penis and she wanted me to pleasure my self. i did and came all over my chest. i did it twice but never again. i would let a female know in the future if you want to do it im fine with it but i done feel comfortable doing it. this day in age someone can be recording the screen and if they get upset angry with you for any little thing they could easily post it on a porn site. i wouldnt want to risk that. there are woman who do that to guys and men who do that to woman. its a shame. even with pics. i would never take a naked pic of myself and send it to a woman. a female friend of my who is older in her early 30s she recently got divorced after 13 years of marriage and her ex put photos of her online. it sad

My husband is stationed in S. Korea, nearly 7k miles away from me, and even so I still haven't developed the courage to get into doing stuff on video. I will do stuff and take photos, but I'm just..really..I don't know. Insecure. Something about not being able to see if I want something to be seen that way, from that angle, etc. With photos, you can at least see if you like them first.