Ways to boost a man's ego, not deflate it!

Ways to boost a man's ego, not deflate it!

AriaRN AriaRN
AriaRN
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When it comes to sex, I am much more into using toys, games, etc. into the bedroom than my husband is. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to encourage him to use toys, etc. in the bedroom without hurting his ego? thanks!
06/24/2012
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Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by AriaRN
When it comes to sex, I am much more into using toys, games, etc. into the bedroom than my husband is. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how to encourage him to use toys, etc. in the bedroom without hurting his ego? thanks!
Id like to know that too! My hubby will watch porn,but gets defensive if I say I'd like to watch it with him, so I do it alone. I also use my toys in private. I think he knows about the toys,but not trying to get into a fight about it. He's 52 and his sex drive doesn't match mine, so I do what I gotta do, but won't cheat. I love that creep.
07/10/2012
meluaz69 meluaz69
Honesty ladies! just lay your cards out for them, tell them that this is what you want, this is something that will turn you on. Tell them just how much it will turn you on get descriptive, Give them an idea of how your turn on will benefit them. Tell them that they would make your own experience that much better if they join in.(using your bedroom sultry voice cant hurt) Noelle set a discreetly sexy mood in your bedroom or wherever you watch porn put on something that is sexy but not as if you are trying to entice him (a nice sexy top with a hot skirt and NO PANTIES) let him "catch" you in the act of watching porn and pleasuring yourself dont stop doing what you are doing then tell him how hot it makes you and how hot you will make him invite him over and ......... edenfantasy123 you could try using the vibe on yourself during intercourse and give him a little vibe action that he wouldnt be able to tell if it was directed at him or not. He may really enjoy it, either way ladies if they arent receptive love them for who they are and tell them its ok but dont inhibit your self just to please them.
07/10/2012
AriaRN AriaRN
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Originally posted by meluaz69
Honesty ladies! just lay your cards out for them, tell them that this is what you want, this is something that will turn you on. Tell them just how much it will turn you on get descriptive, Give them an idea of how your turn on will benefit them. ...
Thanks for this! I definitely enjoy watching porn and pleasuring myself. I would love to see how he would react if he caught me in the act. I will definitely have to try this!
07/11/2012
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