who is lingerie for

Contributor: MissTwist MissTwist
my husband and i had a disagreement he said lingerie is for the man, i say the women to feel sexy, or maybe foreplay what do yall think?
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man
snowminx , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , PassionCpl , chicmichiw , Cosmonaut , eri86 , TJax , Ms. N , Marie Hanna , PropertyOfPotter , Pete's Princess , Gunsmoke , Sera26 , evanescentowl , sweisb4100 , marmouse , Ayogirl230 , Stagger13 , sXeVegan90 , RebelRebelJen
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women
snowminx , SMichelle , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , PassionCpl , MissTwist , chicmichiw , Cosmonaut , eri86 , TJax , Ms. N , Marie Hanna , melissa1973 , PropertyOfPotter , padmeamidala , Eyesonfire , wicked48 , Sera26 , evanescentowl , sweisb4100 , marmouse , Hummingbird , Dolphin Lady , Ayogirl230 , sXeVegan90 , BrittaniMaree , RebelRebelJen
26
foreplay
eri86 , Gunsmoke , KrissyNovacaine , Sera26 , Booktease , sweisb4100 , marmouse
7
Total votes: 54 (31 voters)
Poll is closed
06/15/2013
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Contributor: SMichelle SMichelle
I think that it's both for the man and woman. I am, what some might call, a lingerie addict. I have a huge collection of it, and adore every piece -- and yet, my partner lives across the Atlantic. So, I wear lingerie mostly for me; it makes me feel sexy and confident, even on my worst days. At the same time, I have some pieces that I wear when my partner and I get to visit one another because he loves how I look in certain items.
06/15/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
I think it just depends on the individual. Some women love lingerie and some think it's uncomfortable and just wear it because their men think it's sexy.
06/15/2013
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I think it is for both the man and the women. I know I enjoy wearing it because it makes me feel sexy. Some guys enjoy it but they rather just tear it off of you.
06/15/2013
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by SMichelle
I think that it's both for the man and woman. I am, what some might call, a lingerie addict. I have a huge collection of it, and adore every piece -- and yet, my partner lives across the Atlantic. So, I wear lingerie mostly for me; it makes me ... more
Coincidentally, we were exactly the same when we were a Transatlantic dating couple
06/15/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Quote:
Originally posted by MissTwist
my husband and i had a disagreement he said lingerie is for the man, i say the women to feel sexy, or maybe foreplay what do yall think?
I used to think it was exclusively for women, but now I'm pretty sure there are men who also enjoy it. Being half clothed or half-exposed certainly has an element of sexiness and both women and men can capitalize on it.
06/15/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I say it is for all people ^^
06/15/2013
Contributor: eri86 eri86
All of the above and then some.
06/16/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
My woman mainly wears it to look sexy for me, but I know she likes how pretty lingerie makes her too.
06/16/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I think its for both. It helps a woman feel better.
06/16/2013
Contributor: melissa1973 melissa1973
I think that it's for everyone. The man to appreciate the wife/girlfriend/SO for going out of her or his way to look good for them. The woman because it makes her feel sexy. It's a win win situation all round.
06/16/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think it's truly a mix of both. When I'm wearing something that I think looks sexy on me, it makes me feel confident and is reflected in the way I carry myself. My husband sees me as being sexy and appealing and we're both able to enjoy what happens as a result of that.
06/16/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
I think it is mainly for the man. Because men are more visual and if a woman feels sexier then he reaps the benefits
06/16/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife would rather not bother - so when she does it, I know it's for me.
06/16/2013
Contributor: Eyesonfire Eyesonfire
In this house, I love lingerie because it makes me feel sexy but my husband could careless. To him its just something to take off.
06/16/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
The lingerie is for me because it makes me feel sexy!
06/16/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
In general, I think lingerie is for women doing what they think men like. My boyfriend and i were looking at lingerie in a store and he was really frustrated that every single thing he liked didn't come in larger sizes. All the bigger things were much more covering which frustrated him. He loves my body and doesn't want to hide it. I feel that lingerie, at least for most, is for women to feel sexy and do what they think their partner wants.

For me, lingerie is something I like. I do it for me. I will take my partner's tastes into consideration, but it's always what I like.
06/16/2013
Contributor: sweisb4100 sweisb4100
It should make you feel good about yourself. Man or woman.
06/16/2013
Contributor: marmouse marmouse
I think it depends. I used to wear lingerie because I liked how it looked and it made me feel sexy but now I spend less effort on how I dress so I think if I bother to put it on or buy it it's for my man.
06/16/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
For us it is more for me, as a woman it enhances my amorous feelings helping feel even more sexy and desirable.
06/16/2013
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
My personal opinion is both.
06/16/2013
Contributor: sunnyc sunnyc
I think it is for both. Makes me feel sexy and makes him happy.
06/16/2013
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
All of the above. Makes everyone happy.
06/17/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
i love wearing it and he loves it. its for both
06/18/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by MissTwist
my husband and i had a disagreement he said lingerie is for the man, i say the women to feel sexy, or maybe foreplay what do yall think?
I say its for men or perhaps the SO...I think that is the best valentines present ever.
06/19/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
For both...in no particular order.
06/19/2013
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
For the neighbors when you leave the curtain open during sex.
06/19/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I think it's for both.
06/19/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
for me to wear
06/19/2013
Contributor: RebelRebelJen RebelRebelJen
Quote:
Originally posted by MissTwist
my husband and i had a disagreement he said lingerie is for the man, i say the women to feel sexy, or maybe foreplay what do yall think?
It's a bit of both, in my opinion. It helps make a woman feel sexy, and helps make a man get turned on!
06/24/2013