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Would you cheat with a married man (woman)?

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Contributor: Rory Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as one nighter's. It sounds like the regulars know he's married and the one nighter's may not know. Would you be with him if you knew he was married?
I thought I'd do private voting in case your spouse reads these too!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes I would sleep with him.
6
No way!
40
I am married
20
I'm single
9
Total votes: 75 (50 voters)
Poll is closed
09/29/2012
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Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I guess my situation is a bit different and more complicated: My Dom is in an open marriage. His wife is very much aware of me and doesn't mind me being with Him, too. In fact, we get along fine. We don't sleep together or anything like that. We both just have our separate moments with Him. It's all very...weird, to say the least, but I'm still adapting to all of this.

Now, if it wasn't an open-marriage and there were specific boundaries in place, then no, I would not even consider being with him. Being cheated on is extremely painful because I had it happen to me before and I wouldn't want to inflict that pain on someone else.
09/29/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I personally wouldn't do it. My thought is if he was in an open marriage or not. Does his wife know or is he sneaking around? If he's not using safe sex practices, then I'd be one pissed off wife.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
Definitely NOT.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
As I am not in an open marriage, I wouldn't sleep with anyone else. Only if it's allowed.

I'd certainly be one pissed off wife if I found that out.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Single. I hate married/taken men that do that - they've taken advantage of me as an emotional mistress and then they finally started asking for physical stuff, too. I want to be a fucking priority in a man's life! NOT a distraction during the ennui of free time or whenever he's got an itch because he's too ball-less to divorce his wife or he's such a man-whore. I'm so sick of men keeping me a secret ...

*apparently has issues on the matter*
09/29/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I'm single, and I wouldn't.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
If it's an open relationship and the wife knows that he is seeing other people, I wouldn't have an issue with sleeping with a married man, provided my partner didn't mind.
09/29/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I wouldn't. Ever. Even if they were in an open relationship. Just not my cup of tea.
09/29/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm married - I'm the one who travels and I have never even considered cheating on my wife. It's a repulsive concept to me.
09/29/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I have but I was in the relationship for months before I knew the guy was married. Literally I slept in their house in their bed and I had no idea this guy was married. Yes, the crib in the other room was for his daughter that came on weekends. Found out later that his wives clothes were in another closet in another room. He was soo good he even hid the female supplies out of the bathroom!!!
09/29/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
No, there are enough single women in the sea.
09/29/2012
Contributor: satinlady550 satinlady550
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
I was married to a man that cheated and to do the same to another woman.. Is a big no...
09/29/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
It really depends on the guy.
09/29/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
I wouldn't, because I'm against cheating.
09/30/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
I would never cheat, and if I was single i would not sleep with someone in a relationship.
10/02/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
Even though I have a open marriage and an equally open second relationship I refuse to sleep with someone who is married or has agreed to a monogamous relationship with his significant other. I do not take the word of an intended partner either...if they have an open relationship then they shouldn't have any heartburn about me confirming this for myself. I refuse to cheat on or with anyone. It just isn't worth the momentary pleasure.
10/02/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
No, I wouldn't.
10/02/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
It depends on the man.
10/02/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
I could never do it!
10/02/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
I wouldn't do it
10/02/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
My husband has traveling service people work for him and one man always talks about the woman he is fooling around with. He is married 20 plus years and it sounds like a "happy" marriage. He travels everywhere and has regulars as well as ... more
never but even tho theres alot that wont admit it this happens all the time where to other girl/boy knows who they r messing with is married
10/05/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
What I left out is that this guy is nice looking and he has a great body. I personally would not cheat and and if I was single I would stay away from married men. If I was in an open marriage and his was too than maybe.
10/09/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I would not cheat with a married man if I was married, too. What a mess! If two people are that unhappy in their relationships, they really need to do something different.

As it stands, I want to say; "Of course I wouldn't cheat with a married man!" but I've already slept with a man in a rather committed relationship, so I don't know that that would stop me. Although one thing has changed since then: I (naively) thought that I could get him to leave his girlfriend for me. I know better now, of course! If a man isn't willing to be with you and only you... He isn't worth your time.
10/17/2012
Contributor: southerndixie southerndixie
It depends on the man. My husband was married when we first started relations.
10/18/2012
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I have before when I was a lot younger it was a dumb move and wish I could take it back
03/19/2013
Contributor: CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
NO NO NO!!! I was cheated on by my ex husband and I would never want to put anyone through that!!
03/19/2013
Contributor: Pete's Princess Pete's Princess
(Review Program Mentor)
No - I would not cheat with him.
03/20/2013
Contributor: Munko Munko
Absolutely not. I've actually dropped friends for similar circumstances. It's something I feel rather strongly about.
04/02/2013