Stop whatever you are doing and give me your thoughts!

Stop whatever you are doing and give me your thoughts!

Big-daddy Big-daddy
Hello everyone and let me get straight to the point. I am totally aroused by the thought of having my wife.... well...um.. "having" me via strap-on. Is it ok for a straight man? Plz be honest, an honest question deserves an honest answer, ok?

Plz be honest, an honest question deserves an honest answer, ok?
09/01/2008
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Big-daddy Big-daddy
Quote:
Originally posted by Big-daddy
Hello everyone and let me get straight to the point. I am totally aroused by the thought of having my wife.... well...um.. "having" me via strap-on. Is it ok for a straight man? Plz be honest, an honest question deserves an honest answer, ...
P.S. Oops, sorry for double posting, don't know how that happened.
09/01/2008
Beautiful Dreamer Beautiful Dreamer
I am actually in the process of getting a harness for myself to use with my boyfriend. It was originally his idea and I'm very receptive to it. Make sure you talk to her and she understands why you want to do this.
I'd make sure you also have at least experimented with anal as I'm told actually using a harness and having you "receive" is a bit more intense than a simple plug or probe. And make sure to use lots of lubricant!
We're looking into getting a harness by outlaw, simply because you can have a dildo on the outside and the inside (so your wife has some fun too!)
We're also planning on only buying 100% silicone dildos, because you CAN sterilize them between use. We want to do this so we can switch who's using which (after sterilizing them, of course.) If there's anything else I can help with, feel free to send me a message. While I haven't used one yet, I've done my homework and talked to quite a few people who've enjoyed them. Or you can always message my boyfriend to get his thoughts on it as a guy (Bucking Bill)
09/01/2008
Epiphora Epiphora
Totally okay. Enjoying/desiring anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation, if that's what you're worried about. All that matters if that both of you are into it.

I wish I could talk my boyfriend into letting me strap it on and do him, but alas...
09/01/2008
Nashville Nashville
Pegging is NOT a rarity in heterosexual relationships. My husband and I do not engage in it but several of my close friends do. In my experience a lot of guys show interest in it whether or not they'd outright say so... a chick with a plastic cock strapped on is HOT and as a couple we always get off on videos where it focuses on girls fucking each other or men with strapons.
09/01/2008
Bulma Bulma
Many women as well as men find pegging incredibly hot. My husband and I enjoy pegging and are not likely to stop anytime soon. Enjoying anal penetration does not even hint that a man is gay, there really is no connection unless the man desires another man to be doing the penetrating. Anything between a man and a woman is heterosexual, regardless of what they are engaging in. Anal play is quite enjoyable for many men, and it is usually a big turn on for the wife to be involved, or at least it is for me
09/01/2008
Essin' Em Essin' Em
a) Yes, it's ok for a straight man, gay man, bi man, pansexual man, hell, even an asexual man. Butts are butts, and don't have any sort of orientation attached to them. I know lots of straight men that love having their butts played with, and gay men that absolutely hate it.

b) Talk to her about it and see what she thinks about it. She may be very open to it, she may be hesitant about it, or she may be against the idea. A great movie to check out is Bend Over Boyfriend - it is all about pegging, and shows it in relationship contexts. Very fun, very informative.

Good luck!
09/02/2008
Big-daddy Big-daddy
Great. Thanks for your posts lovely ladies! Well wish me luck and keep me in your prayers, LOL
09/02/2008
Jimbo Jones Jimbo Jones
I agree that loving anal play does not make one a homosexual. As a heterosexual male who loves anal play, I have no qualms with exploring that part of my sexuality and enjoy it very much. Luckily, I have a female partner that is very willing to participate with me in those experiences.
09/03/2008
Always Aroused Girl Always Aroused Girl
It's perfectly fine and absolutely wonderful. I've played with the butts of a number of straight and mostly straight men. How you like your body stimulated does not affect your orientation.
09/03/2008
BeeLeaveMe BeeLeaveMe
I have to agree with Epiphora. You're not having sex with a man, are you? No it's your wife. Who is a woman. That doesn't mean your gay or have any kind of gay tendencies. I think it's wonderful for straight men to be in tune with there bodies and sexuality. You know what feels good and think for yourself.
09/03/2008
Destri Destri
late to the party, but I just had to agree with everyone! My husband really enjoys some anal play, and I have used a strap-on on him. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation and everything to do with eroticism....
09/04/2008
quiteneil quiteneil
Absolutely okay--and you'll probably find it quite enjoyable!
09/04/2008
Dame Demi Dame Demi
Men have a prostate. That's enough reason to have anal sex as far as I'm concerned. Good luck!
09/05/2008
Peg Peg
We enjoy our strap-on sex a lot! Echoing the others here, it's not about sexual orientation but knowing what feels good and being able to make each other feel good. He knows what he likes (me) and I like making him feel good. We talk to each other while we are strapping and he lets me know exactly what is feeling good (rhythm, tempo, etc) and it really adds to the excitement. Make sure you keep the lube handy if you plan on going at it for a while It makes for a great aerobic exercise for her and in the right position she can get a good thigh work out as well. Great sex and exercise at the same time, double bonus!
09/05/2008
AnalArtist AnalArtist
Hell yeah, once you start, you'll have a hard time of stopping. My advice, read about anal sex on here and do some research. Don't just jump into it, start off with like finger then move up. Get a small toy and then a little bigger and bigger. You don't want to hurt yourself and ruin the experience for yourself. I can tell you this much from my personal play, anal makes orgasm more powerful and full feeling. Also, nice to just take it and enjoy it haha.
09/08/2008
Robyn Robyn
I dont think there is anything wrong with it do what ever makes you and she happy
09/08/2008
Snappy Snappy
It's like women asking "Is it all right that I fantasize about other women when I masturbate?" Of course, it is.
09/29/2008
Miss Jane Miss Jane
Quote:
Originally posted by Big-daddy
Hello everyone and let me get straight to the point. I am totally aroused by the thought of having my wife.... well...um.. "having" me via strap-on. Is it ok for a straight man? Plz be honest, an honest question deserves an honest answer, ...
Yes! It's perfectly all right for a straight man. My boyfriend's actually been practicing with butt-plugs and dildos to work up to me pegging him. Girls wearing strap-ons are hot, and a lot of guys really get off on the girl taking control in the bedroom.

I would suggest talking to her about it and probably practicing with small plugs or dildos beforehand, so you don't encounter any problems.
10/26/2008
Naughty Student Naughty Student
Quote:
Originally posted by Epiphora
Totally okay. Enjoying/desiring anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation, if that's what you're worried about. All that matters if that both of you are into it.I wish I could talk my boyfriend into letting me strap it on and do ...
I totally agree with Epiphora in regards to anal play having more to do with pleasure than sexual orientation. I too wish my partner was more open to it bcs I enjoy anal, I wish he wouldn't be so afraid to try it so he could experience how much he can derive from anal stimulation. I hope all worked out for you and your partner!
01/31/2009
Harlequin Harlequin
gross.
12/12/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Big-daddy
Hello everyone and let me get straight to the point. I am totally aroused by the thought of having my wife.... well...um.. "having" me via strap-on. Is it ok for a straight man? Plz be honest, an honest question deserves an honest answer, ...
I think you'll find or have already found that lots of completely straight guys LOVE a good pegging now and again. It can't make you gay cause you want a woman at the end of that dick not a guy...so go on and enjoy the hell out of the experience.
12/25/2010
KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Epiphora
Totally okay. Enjoying/desiring anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation, if that's what you're worried about. All that matters if that both of you are into it.I wish I could talk my boyfriend into letting me strap it on and do ...
Same. I would love to peg a guy. I'm not sure if the guy I'm sort of seeing would be into that though. We haven't even fooled around yet... That'll be interesting to bring up
12/25/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Why wouldn't it be ok? If you're willing, go for it.
12/25/2010
Danielle1220 Danielle1220
My husband loves it, and no it doesn't make you gay. It has to do with pleasure, not your sexual orientation, and anal play on men can be very pleasurable if you just relax.
12/29/2010
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