I am actually in the process of getting a harness for myself to use with my boyfriend. It was originally his idea and I'm very receptive to it. Make sure you talk to her and she understands why you want to do this.
I'd make sure you also have at least experimented with anal as I'm told actually using a harness and having you "receive" is a bit more intense than a simple plug or probe. And make sure to use lots of lubricant!
We're looking into getting a harness by outlaw, simply because you can have a dildo on the outside and the inside (so your wife has some fun too!)
We're also planning on only buying 100% silicone dildos, because you CAN sterilize them between use. We want to do this so we can switch who's using which (after sterilizing them, of course.) If there's anything else I can help with, feel free to send me a message. While I haven't used one yet, I've done my homework and talked to quite a few people who've enjoyed them. Or you can always message my boyfriend to get his thoughts on it as a guy (Bucking Bill)

Totally okay. Enjoying/desiring anal play has nothing to do with sexual orientation, if that's what you're worried about. All that matters if that both of you are into it.

I wish I could talk my boyfriend into letting me strap it on and do him, but alas...

Pegging is NOT a rarity in heterosexual relationships. My husband and I do not engage in it but several of my close friends do. In my experience a lot of guys show interest in it whether or not they'd outright say so... a chick with a plastic cock strapped on is HOT and as a couple we always get off on videos where it focuses on girls fucking each other or men with strapons.

Many women as well as men find pegging incredibly hot. My husband and I enjoy pegging and are not likely to stop anytime soon. Enjoying anal penetration does not even hint that a man is gay, there really is no connection unless the man desires another man to be doing the penetrating. Anything between a man and a woman is heterosexual, regardless of what they are engaging in. Anal play is quite enjoyable for many men, and it is usually a big turn on for the wife to be involved, or at least it is for me

a) Yes, it's ok for a straight man, gay man, bi man, pansexual man, hell, even an asexual man. Butts are butts, and don't have any sort of orientation attached to them. I know lots of straight men that love having their butts played with, and gay men that absolutely hate it.

b) Talk to her about it and see what she thinks about it. She may be very open to it, she may be hesitant about it, or she may be against the idea. A great movie to check out is Bend Over Boyfriend - it is all about pegging, and shows it in relationship contexts. Very fun, very informative.

Good luck!

Great. Thanks for your posts lovely ladies! Well wish me luck and keep me in your prayers, LOL

I agree that loving anal play does not make one a homosexual. As a heterosexual male who loves anal play, I have no qualms with exploring that part of my sexuality and enjoy it very much. Luckily, I have a female partner that is very willing to participate with me in those experiences.

It's perfectly fine and absolutely wonderful. I've played with the butts of a number of straight and mostly straight men. How you like your body stimulated does not affect your orientation.

I have to agree with Epiphora. You're not having sex with a man, are you? No it's your wife. Who is a woman. That doesn't mean your gay or have any kind of gay tendencies. I think it's wonderful for straight men to be in tune with there bodies and sexuality. You know what feels good and think for yourself.

late to the party, but I just had to agree with everyone! My husband really enjoys some anal play, and I have used a strap-on on him. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation and everything to do with eroticism....

Absolutely okay--and you'll probably find it quite enjoyable!

Men have a prostate. That's enough reason to have anal sex as far as I'm concerned. Good luck!

We enjoy our strap-on sex a lot! Echoing the others here, it's not about sexual orientation but knowing what feels good and being able to make each other feel good. He knows what he likes (me) and I like making him feel good. We talk to each other while we are strapping and he lets me know exactly what is feeling good (rhythm, tempo, etc) and it really adds to the excitement. Make sure you keep the lube handy if you plan on going at it for a while It makes for a great aerobic exercise for her and in the right position she can get a good thigh work out as well. Great sex and exercise at the same time, double bonus!

Hell yeah, once you start, you'll have a hard time of stopping. My advice, read about anal sex on here and do some research. Don't just jump into it, start off with like finger then move up. Get a small toy and then a little bigger and bigger. You don't want to hurt yourself and ruin the experience for yourself. I can tell you this much from my personal play, anal makes orgasm more powerful and full feeling. Also, nice to just take it and enjoy it haha.

I dont think there is anything wrong with it do what ever makes you and she happy

It's like women asking "Is it all right that I fantasize about other women when I masturbate?" Of course, it is.

gross.

My husband loves it, and no it doesn't make you gay. It has to do with pleasure, not your sexual orientation, and anal play on men can be very pleasurable if you just relax.