Are one night stands ok??
ONE night stands
01/05/2011
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They are "ok", not anything that I enjoy a lot, but not something I am totally against.
01/05/2011
One night stands can be very hot. With the right person, of course.
01/05/2011
can't say that it's my thing, but sure if you want to go for it
01/06/2011
Never had a one night stand. I'm not totally opposed to the idea, but I guess I like the thought of sleeping with someone I've been dating better.
01/06/2011
It's not my thing, but I can see how it would be great for others.
01/06/2011
I don't see any problem with them, as long as people are safe. It's not something I'd do, though.
01/06/2011
It would definitely depend on the individuals and their preferences.
01/06/2011
I think I'd rather have had the choice to vote "other." There are so many issues at play here, I wouldn't presume to declare them "ok" or "not ok" for anybody else (except my daughter, heh).
As long as you behave honestly, responsibly and safe, you should do what it pleases you to do.
As long as you behave honestly, responsibly and safe, you should do what it pleases you to do.
01/06/2011
I think I'm not understanding the question fully. Do you mean okay as in morally? As in okay overall to do? Or are you asking if we are okay with them? Or are we okay with doing them?
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my friend who does them, but he's pretty desperate and lonely. But it's his choice and his life. I personally would not do them at all, I need to have an emotional connection. For me to sink to that level I think i would really have to dislike myself as I pride myself in having set standards.
Not for everyone, but for those it works for, more power to you I guess, so long as everyone plays it safe.
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my friend who does them, but he's pretty desperate and lonely. But it's his choice and his life. I personally would not do them at all, I need to have an emotional connection. For me to sink to that level I think i would really have to dislike myself as I pride myself in having set standards.
Not for everyone, but for those it works for, more power to you I guess, so long as everyone plays it safe.
01/06/2011
They're not for me but I wouldn't tell someone else (who was sober and of sound mind) not to. If you're of age, responsible, and in a mental state where you can make decisions for yourself and that is what you want to do, who am I to make a judgement? Different strokes for different folks.
01/06/2011
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Agreed completely.
Originally posted by
Envy
I think I'm not understanding the question fully. Do you mean okay as in morally? As in okay overall to do? Or are you asking if we are okay with them? Or are we okay with doing them?
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my ... more
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my ... more
I think I'm not understanding the question fully. Do you mean okay as in morally? As in okay overall to do? Or are you asking if we are okay with them? Or are we okay with doing them?
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my friend who does them, but he's pretty desperate and lonely. But it's his choice and his life. I personally would not do them at all, I need to have an emotional connection. For me to sink to that level I think i would really have to dislike myself as I pride myself in having set standards.
Not for everyone, but for those it works for, more power to you I guess, so long as everyone plays it safe. less
I know people do them, I admit I'm not keen on my friend who does them, but he's pretty desperate and lonely. But it's his choice and his life. I personally would not do them at all, I need to have an emotional connection. For me to sink to that level I think i would really have to dislike myself as I pride myself in having set standards.
Not for everyone, but for those it works for, more power to you I guess, so long as everyone plays it safe. less
01/06/2011
As long as both parties know it's a one night stand, everyone practices safe sex, and there isn't some third party being injured by the festivities, then it's harmless enough. If someone's going to be hurt or rejected because they were misled, or cheated on, then it's not morally okay.
01/06/2011
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Yes- if protection is used.
Originally posted by
luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
01/10/2011
After the Morning After
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I love love love one night stand. Probably because I am in college, and I am lucky enough to see sex as something that can be meaningful, but it can also be a blast no matter who you are doing it with.
Originally posted by
luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
I write about all of my one night stands on my blog:
link
01/11/2011
So long as you both are on the same page, why not.
01/11/2011
Some people will never admit it but, between consenting adults, it is OK to just have sex. There are some common sense rules to follow and playing safe is always mandatory.
01/11/2011
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Got to get your rocks off somehow and if you can keep the ties to none then why not?
Originally posted by
luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
01/13/2011
as long as you don't get attached or don't end up pregnant.
01/13/2011
I have been there, done that. There is nothing wrong with it so long as protection is used.
01/14/2011
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I don't like one night stands, so personally, no. However, it's each person's opinion and desision.
Originally posted by
luvmenot84
Are one night stands ok??
01/15/2011
As long as its done with protection & *both* consenting adults are aware that its a 'one night stand.'
01/15/2011
I don't think there is a problem with one night stands as long as it does not become a regular thing. Making a habit of sleeping with strangers on a regular basis is VERY risky behavior WITH or WITHOUT the use of condoms. Sex with strangers, or anybody who you do not know with 100% certainty is disease free is risky behavior, however if you have a lot of one night stands you are taking that risk OVER and OVER again. Lets face it condoms break, they fall off on occasion, and they don't cover everything, and like I pointed out in another thread if you are swapping partners only the men are protected, in the case of gay/bisexual men, nobody is. It is certainly safer to use protection but to believe that if you wrap up absolutely nothing will go wrong is just stupidity.
Morally, if both people are consenting and aware of the circumstances then no.
Again, I don't think that making a habit of one night stands is good, morals aside I just don't think it is healthy to limit yourself to hit and run relationships.
Morally, if both people are consenting and aware of the circumstances then no.
Again, I don't think that making a habit of one night stands is good, morals aside I just don't think it is healthy to limit yourself to hit and run relationships.
01/15/2011
Your question is ambiguous.
Do you mean, is it wrong to have a one night stand? No.
Do you mean, is it worth it to have a one night stand? No again. Empty sex is just not fulfilling enough to be worth the effort in my opinion.
Do you mean, is it wrong to have a one night stand? No.
Do you mean, is it worth it to have a one night stand? No again. Empty sex is just not fulfilling enough to be worth the effort in my opinion.
01/15/2011
Before I became somewhat of a misanthrope, I used to have them. Now I'm often disgusted by a lot of people, so it does not happen too often. But that's just my preference.
Ethically there is nothing wrong with it, if nobody hurts anybody. ))
Ethically there is nothing wrong with it, if nobody hurts anybody. ))
01/16/2011
Well, I don't have any problem with other people having one night stands, but they just are not for me.
01/25/2011
I don't see what's wrong with them. I personally never liked the idea although I did have one. It wasn't supposed to be, I was trying to get to know him, we hooked up one night and well, he didn't impress me so I decided to leave it at that and never called him again.
01/25/2011
They are okay as long as you are not in a committed relationship, and you are sure to use adequate protection.
01/25/2011
Sure, once in a while.
01/25/2011
depends on the person. some ppl cant handle them
01/29/2011