How many is too many partners for a single woman to have as long as it is all completely safe sex?
How many partners is too many?
06/20/2012
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there is no number.
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the word.
i seem to have really intense connections with a fair amount of people. i fall in love with a person's inside and connect to them quickly. making love results. often.
don't let anyone tell you you've had sex with 'too many people.'
if you're protecting yourself and not hurting others in the process, there's nothing wrong with having sex. period. there's not a 'cap' or 'limit' on how many partners one person 'should' have.
and if there were it sure as hell shouldn't be different for a woman than for a man. let alone a single woman versus one who was married. poly married folks have arrangements that can allow for both partners to do whatever they like, with however many folks they want to.
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the word.
i seem to have really intense connections with a fair amount of people. i fall in love with a person's inside and connect to them quickly. making love results. often.
don't let anyone tell you you've had sex with 'too many people.'
if you're protecting yourself and not hurting others in the process, there's nothing wrong with having sex. period. there's not a 'cap' or 'limit' on how many partners one person 'should' have.
and if there were it sure as hell shouldn't be different for a woman than for a man. let alone a single woman versus one who was married. poly married folks have arrangements that can allow for both partners to do whatever they like, with however many folks they want to.
06/20/2012
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Nice way to see it. I try not to keep count. My main thing is just keeping it clean and hush hush since I'm raising a young lady I don't want her thinking it is okay at a young age.
Originally posted by
aliceinthehole
there is no number.
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the ... more
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the ... more
there is no number.
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the word.
i seem to have really intense connections with a fair amount of people. i fall in love with a person's inside and connect to them quickly. making love results. often.
don't let anyone tell you you've had sex with 'too many people.'
if you're protecting yourself and not hurting others in the process, there's nothing wrong with having sex. period. there's not a 'cap' or 'limit' on how many partners one person 'should' have.
and if there were it sure as hell shouldn't be different for a woman than for a man. let alone a single woman versus one who was married. poly married folks have arrangements that can allow for both partners to do whatever they like, with however many folks they want to. less
i'll go ahead and publish mine here to make you feel better.
between 45 and fifty. not sure.
i'm not a slut. maybe i am a slut. yeah, i'm a slut. in the best sense of the word.
i seem to have really intense connections with a fair amount of people. i fall in love with a person's inside and connect to them quickly. making love results. often.
don't let anyone tell you you've had sex with 'too many people.'
if you're protecting yourself and not hurting others in the process, there's nothing wrong with having sex. period. there's not a 'cap' or 'limit' on how many partners one person 'should' have.
and if there were it sure as hell shouldn't be different for a woman than for a man. let alone a single woman versus one who was married. poly married folks have arrangements that can allow for both partners to do whatever they like, with however many folks they want to. less
06/21/2012
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As long as everyone is being safe and it's all consensual, then there's no limit. As long as the parties involved are getting what they want out of the relationship (whether that's a meaningful emotional connection or just sex), then who cares about how many there are, whether it's 5 or 5000.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
How many is too many partners for a single woman to have as long as it is all completely safe sex?
06/22/2012
Great topic! How many is too many? WHen you have to take 20 guys on Maury to find out who yo baby daddy is! No really I don't think there's a number. Its pretty much how you feel and as long as everything is safe go forth and multiply! (orgasms yeah not people lol)
07/28/2012
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I believe I had almost the same exact forum started if you are looking for more opinions.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
How many is too many partners for a single woman to have as long as it is all completely safe sex?
08/15/2012
I don't like when someone says a certain number is 'too many' because they connect sex with morals and self-respect, and often sexist double standards. The truth is, there really isn't a minimum or maximum number.
08/21/2012
I really think there's no such thing as "too many". The amount of people a woman has had sex with is not a measure of her character or her worth as a person.
09/04/2012
Orally I'm in the direction of a female gene Simmons ( with male partners) but intercourse let's just say its over 100. Eden has asked me not to mention why. But I will say that I've had 11 lovers.
09/13/2012
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Forgot to mention a real answer to your question. As long as you are comfortable with it and it's not affecting your life negatively ( I mean that it hasn't become an addiction seeing as sexual relationshis often end negatively) and you are protecting yourself and your sexual partners then the number doesn't matter- male or female dosn't make a difference in this case.
Originally posted by
Sangsara
Orally I'm in the direction of a female gene Simmons ( with male partners) but intercourse let's just say its over 100. Eden has asked me not to mention why. But I will say that I've had 11 lovers.
09/13/2012
There's no such thing as too many or too few -- as long as everyone's honest and respectful, it's all good.
09/13/2012
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I'm older and married now, so I say one. But whenI was younger, 2 or 3.
Originally posted by
CaliGirl
How many is too many partners for a single woman to have as long as it is all completely safe sex?
09/15/2012
I am going to echo the majority here and say, there is no number. As long as you are safe, happy and comfortable with what you do, then do it. You only have your life to live, and someone else's extremely subjective opinion about your sex life is, well, useless. Your body, your life. Use it wisely.
09/15/2012
It's up to that person, if they are careful then no real problem. I will say that I knew someone who had had sex with over 1000 men, no that isn't a typo. That is too many to me.
02/20/2013
Their is no upper or lower limit other then what you choose and feel comfortable with Lifelong chastity or trying to set a new most blowjob record it all good as as long as everything is safe, consensual, respectful and that what you want and make you happy.
02/20/2013
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