In everyones opinion what are some pros to being single?
What about cons?
What about cons?
Pros to being single
03/09/2012
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Oddly enough I have no idea what it's like to be single. I've been with Sigel since I was 16 years old and never did the dating scene. Most of the time I am glad for that...I couldn't imagine not being with him, but I wonder if maybe there are some benefits I maybe missed out on. Not in a sad sort of 'grass is greener' way but more plain old curiosity. I'm interested in what some of our single community members have to say on the subject!
Originally posted by
Secret Pleasure
In everyones opinion what are some pros to being single?
What about cons?
What about cons?
03/10/2012
if single u don't have anyone tell u what to do
03/10/2012
Freedom, lack of accountability to a partner.
Lonlieness, no one to share things with.
Lonlieness, no one to share things with.
03/10/2012
Ahhh.. as for pros, I guess freedom to flirt with people?
Cons: Everything. Like, being alone and miserable -.-
I'm having a hard time with it >.<
Cons: Everything. Like, being alone and miserable -.-
I'm having a hard time with it >.<
03/11/2012
I'm in a relationship, but sometimes it sucks, because I hang out with no girls and guys eat junk food (so I"m gaining weight", and I don't feel free. I seriously miss being single but I like my boo sooo, it's fun being single untill you find someone you feel happy with.
03/17/2012
Pros
- No drama.
- Do shit on your time.
- Check people out without someone getting their feelings hurt (I hate petty shit like this. Check someone out if you want to, hell I might even be checking them out too doesn't mean I'm gonna go try to screw them or something =o=)
- Games. I hate the underhanded games people like to play in relationships.
"I love you"
"...."
"why won't you say it back?"
"because we're dating and not married and i'm in relationships for fun and sex not to fall in love."
- No jealousy or cheating or lying etc etc
- Personal time.
- Freedom - I don't like being chained to people, so any future partners I have will have to be open minded both in the bedroom and in general. Sometimes I may just wanna go somewhere don't expect me to explain every part of my life to you. I'll return the favor, I'll drop a notice that I'm going to this place or that but don't text me every minute I'm gone and don't press for details if I don't offer them up.
Cons
- No sex with another person (for me at least)
- I guess it can be nice to have that "special someone" around but... idk this is more a neutral situation for me than a real con.
- No drama.
- Do shit on your time.
- Check people out without someone getting their feelings hurt (I hate petty shit like this. Check someone out if you want to, hell I might even be checking them out too doesn't mean I'm gonna go try to screw them or something =o=)
- Games. I hate the underhanded games people like to play in relationships.
"I love you"
"...."
"why won't you say it back?"
"because we're dating and not married and i'm in relationships for fun and sex not to fall in love."
- No jealousy or cheating or lying etc etc
- Personal time.
- Freedom - I don't like being chained to people, so any future partners I have will have to be open minded both in the bedroom and in general. Sometimes I may just wanna go somewhere don't expect me to explain every part of my life to you. I'll return the favor, I'll drop a notice that I'm going to this place or that but don't text me every minute I'm gone and don't press for details if I don't offer them up.
Cons
- No sex with another person (for me at least)
- I guess it can be nice to have that "special someone" around but... idk this is more a neutral situation for me than a real con.
03/27/2012
Pro's: freedom to explore things you want to do before you are settled down, No bed or cover hog, and no one to please but yourself.
Con's: the lack of a bond, the lack of meaningfulness in a relationship, and feeling alone.
If you are single, just have fun with it and go where it takes you. I have not been single since I was 17, but there are things that I wish I would have done before meeting my SO. I would love to have two men at the same time, but that is never going to happen with my current partner. I would have loved to play around with many other people instead of the monogamous relationship I have been in since I was 17. That did not allow for me to do many things and I regret not taking the chances when they were in front of me. Go wild and be safe, do what you want to do and one day you will meet someone special.
Con's: the lack of a bond, the lack of meaningfulness in a relationship, and feeling alone.
If you are single, just have fun with it and go where it takes you. I have not been single since I was 17, but there are things that I wish I would have done before meeting my SO. I would love to have two men at the same time, but that is never going to happen with my current partner. I would have loved to play around with many other people instead of the monogamous relationship I have been in since I was 17. That did not allow for me to do many things and I regret not taking the chances when they were in front of me. Go wild and be safe, do what you want to do and one day you will meet someone special.
03/27/2012
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i'm thinking the pros are everything! like being completely free to do as you choose, having no one to hold you down, no complicated feelings of jealousy to overcome, being able to fuck whoever you want, whenever you want, not having to ask permission, not being tied down, being able to pack up and move if you want.
Originally posted by
geliebt
Ahhh.. as for pros, I guess freedom to flirt with people?
Cons: Everything. Like, being alone and miserable -.-
I'm having a hard time with it >.<
Cons: Everything. Like, being alone and miserable -.-
I'm having a hard time with it >.<
ah.
it ain't bad, really.
03/27/2012
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