One topic that I have noticed absent from many of the sexually related sites has been sexuality/sex after the death of a husband/wife/partner. I searched for many hours one night when I realized my own sexuality was turned completely off after the death of my husband. I did find out that was normal.

What I did not find was anything that related to when your sexuality and drive does begin to resurface. The inner feelings you have about it and the aspect of where to go from there.

There are a lot of issues and small social aspects that many people do not think of--(thank God! If you did then you have gone through this for yourself...)

Many of the feelings, thoughts and desires are very personal, but there are some overall greneralities that can be addressed. What are your thoughts and questions about this undiscussed area?