So, I went out with my cousin the other night and had dinner at this awesome restaurant after touring some local galleries. It was a great girl's night out. Because I knew we'd be going out to dinner, I dressed up. I actually wore makeup!

Over dinner, my cousin tells me the various people I flirted with throughout the day and who flirted with me (including the cute waiter). After this, I informed my cousin that from then on, she had to stay with me at all times to tell me about this social interaction that I, apparently, have no concept over.

I know I can't be the only one who has no concept of flirting, so I ask everyone out there: how many of you are oblivious to this whole other language?

(I'm asking this on the Singles forum because I thought single girls and guys probably do more flirting.) less

Oh people think I am flirting all the time. But I am not I am just being friendly. In college I found this one guy told a mutual friend that I liked him. I had to remind her that when I was the one that told her how two girls were hating on each other because they both liked him and how he was not that good looking. When I pointed him out she was like Eeeuu you were right.

Then another guy that I was great friends with totally ignore me when he started dating a girl. I did get upset and just stopped talking to him then people were telling me that I was upset cause I liked him. I was no. They all said oh we saw the way you flirted.

Honestly I am not flirting I just a friendly person. So I try now not to be so friendly or too smiley when I am around a guy that I think is thinking I am flirting with him.

I know this post is a bit long and confusing. Sorry. less

I guess it's similar for me too.

I am friendly and really social. I talk to people about all sorts of stuff and get really intrigued about others views. Sometimes this intrigue is taken as personal interest and the person thinks I'm into them or flirting perhaps. So when I talk to guys I try to be careful how I talk to them (I try to be aware of my body language too).

I don't know if its just my perception and I like to flatter myself(?) but I can tell when a guy is flirting with me. There are different kinds of flirting, some guys are really go getters(not too sure what to do but try anything they can to talk to you), or direct and rude(sexist), some guys just try to make you laugh a lot. Everyone has their own flirting style.

I am in a relationship and I flirt with friends soemtimes. Its more like teasing each other (were all in relationships) then flirting. less

So, I went out with my cousin the other night and had dinner at this awesome restaurant after touring some local galleries. It was a great girl's night out. Because I knew we'd be going out to dinner, I dressed up. I actually wore makeup!

Over dinner, my cousin tells me the various people I flirted with throughout the day and who flirted with me (including the cute waiter). After this, I informed my cousin that from then on, she had to stay with me at all times to tell me about this social interaction that I, apparently, have no concept over.

I know I can't be the only one who has no concept of flirting, so I ask everyone out there: how many of you are oblivious to this whole other language?

(I'm asking this on the Singles forum because I thought single girls and guys probably do more flirting.) less