So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
When you're lonely at night...
11/10/2011
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Nights like that, I cuddle up to a body pillow and wish for my lover. We all need physical contact, more than we need sex, sometimes. I've been known to have cuddle-piles with good friends to alleviate the need for contact.
11/10/2011
I meditate on it so that I can peacefully let it go.
11/10/2011
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what do you do when you meditate?
Originally posted by
Avant-garde
I meditate on it so that I can peacefully let it go.
11/10/2011
I have a cat who snuggles me most nights, which is lovely. Otherwise I just cocoon myself up in my blankets and curl up. The coziness helps the alone factor
11/10/2011
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I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). It teaches you how to let go, to detach yourself from states of mind such as loneliness; so it comes and goes in the mind with less if any disturbance.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
what do you do when you meditate?
11/10/2011
Usually, when I'm that lonely (which it happens more than I wish it would...) I'm usually pretty sad, too and end up either crying about it or having a fit about it. It's really. sad. Sometimes I am able to talk my girlfriend into coming over, but usually I just end up going to bed all lonely and stuff.
11/10/2011
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I actually take a class on DBT (dialectic behavioral therapy) every Tuesday Maybe I'll start using those techniques to deal with the emotional part of it. I get so hung up on it that it's all that's on my mind once it pops in there.
Originally posted by
Avant-garde
I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy).
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I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). It teaches you how to let go, to detach yourself from states of mind such as loneliness; so it comes and goes in the mind with less if any disturbance.
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11/10/2011
I usually cuddle with my dog or my teddybear when I'm feeling lonely for touch. It doesn't always help, but usually it does.
11/10/2011
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I do have a teddy bear that my girlfriend bought for me, though, a month after we go together. I cuddle him no matter what at night. He's not her, but he's as close to her as I can get.
Originally posted by
wrecklesswords
Usually, when I'm that lonely (which it happens more than I wish it would...) I'm usually pretty sad, too and end up either crying about it or having a fit about it. It's really. sad. Sometimes I am able to talk my girlfriend into
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Usually, when I'm that lonely (which it happens more than I wish it would...) I'm usually pretty sad, too and end up either crying about it or having a fit about it. It's really. sad. Sometimes I am able to talk my girlfriend into coming over, but usually I just end up going to bed all lonely and stuff.
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11/11/2011
Sometimes I try to snuggle with my kitty but most nights she's not having it. Nothing like being rejected by a cat lol
11/11/2011
I don't have that feeling very often, but when I do I surround myself with my body pillows and boomerang pillows. They seem to do the trick for me.
11/11/2011
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I used to get hung up on those states of thought myself. Mediation helped me a lot with that. Whatever way you choose to deal with it I wish you luck.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
I actually take a class on DBT (dialectic behavioral therapy) every Tuesday Maybe I'll start using those techniques to deal with the emotional part of it. I get so hung up on it that it's all that's on my mind once it pops in there.
11/11/2011
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This sounds really interesting!
Originally posted by
Avant-garde
I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy).
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I suggest you watch the youtube videos of this buddhist monk. I learned everything about how to meditate from him. He just talks about the practice not the spiritual or religious elements. psychologists call it CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy). It teaches you how to let go, to detach yourself from states of mind such as loneliness; so it comes and goes in the mind with less if any disturbance.
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11/11/2011
I'm not one that really needs regular "cuddling". I do love being hugged up to my partner and chatting and all, but it's not something I need often. I guess we do have a decent amount of physical touch, if not more than normal. Lol. We don't cuddle often and I don't find myself longing for cuddling. It's very rare for me. I guess I prefer other types of contact than the cuddling part.
I certainly wouldn't stray though. Ask your partner for more physical touch when you're around each other or get a pet, if you love pets. If not, it wouldn't be the best idea because they need lots of attention too.
I have 3 cats, a weiner dog and hamster. Of course Hubert hamster doesn't sleep with me, but one of my cats and sometimes 2 sleep with me on cold nights. My weiner dog is my sidekick. He sleeps with me every single night. He even waits on me outside the bathroom door. Lol. So if I did ever get the urge to cuddle, they could be helpful to snuggle up to. I think it'd help a great deal.
I certainly wouldn't stray though. Ask your partner for more physical touch when you're around each other or get a pet, if you love pets. If not, it wouldn't be the best idea because they need lots of attention too.
I have 3 cats, a weiner dog and hamster. Of course Hubert hamster doesn't sleep with me, but one of my cats and sometimes 2 sleep with me on cold nights. My weiner dog is my sidekick. He sleeps with me every single night. He even waits on me outside the bathroom door. Lol. So if I did ever get the urge to cuddle, they could be helpful to snuggle up to. I think it'd help a great deal.
11/11/2011
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I would love to ask my partner for more physical touch..but I don't have a partner lol. I mean I do, sorta...but we are just friends so a lot of physical touch might make things a little to "real."
Originally posted by
K101
I'm not one that really needs regular "cuddling". I do love being hugged up to my partner and chatting and all, but it's not something I need often. I guess we do have a decent amount of physical touch, if not more than normal. Lol.
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I'm not one that really needs regular "cuddling". I do love being hugged up to my partner and chatting and all, but it's not something I need often. I guess we do have a decent amount of physical touch, if not more than normal. Lol. We don't cuddle often and I don't find myself longing for cuddling. It's very rare for me. I guess I prefer other types of contact than the cuddling part.
I certainly wouldn't stray though. Ask your partner for more physical touch when you're around each other or get a pet, if you love pets. If not, it wouldn't be the best idea because they need lots of attention too.
I have 3 cats, a weiner dog and hamster. Of course Hubert hamster doesn't sleep with me, but one of my cats and sometimes 2 sleep with me on cold nights. My weiner dog is my sidekick. He sleeps with me every single night. He even waits on me outside the bathroom door. Lol. So if I did ever get the urge to cuddle, they could be helpful to snuggle up to. I think it'd help a great deal. less
I certainly wouldn't stray though. Ask your partner for more physical touch when you're around each other or get a pet, if you love pets. If not, it wouldn't be the best idea because they need lots of attention too.
I have 3 cats, a weiner dog and hamster. Of course Hubert hamster doesn't sleep with me, but one of my cats and sometimes 2 sleep with me on cold nights. My weiner dog is my sidekick. He sleeps with me every single night. He even waits on me outside the bathroom door. Lol. So if I did ever get the urge to cuddle, they could be helpful to snuggle up to. I think it'd help a great deal. less
11/11/2011
Nothing like a stuffed animal!..lol
11/15/2011
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Kitties and stuffed animals! Though sometimes that still doesn't work and I just try to bundle up with pillows and covers. It all helps though I wouldn't say that alleviates it completely.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to
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So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
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11/16/2011
I think I need a puppy. My kitty is the best, but she isn't a cuddler. Though she is snuggled up around my neck on the back on the couch right now. I love her :-D
11/16/2011
this is my baby kitty! Ok, she isn't a baby anymore...she's like a year old. But she's still MY baby! :-D link
11/16/2011
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I get where your coming from. Believe me I understand.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to
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more
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
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11/16/2011
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I am not single but I do not live with my boyfriend. we both work alot and have such different work schedules that I am lucky if we sleep together three times a month. on nights when I am lonely I have a teddy bear in my bed that I snuggle up with nothing sexual just snuggle. I know its cheesy but it works.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to
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more
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
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11/17/2011
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Nope, such is life. Dry spells can be miserable sometimes.
Originally posted by
Lickable Lollie
So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to
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So, I know we've all had those nights where we just want to get some action, and sometimes we can't so we turn to our trusty toys. Well, sometimes it's not the sex I'm craving, it's the body to body contact! Is there ANY way to get rid of that? Other than sleeping around...
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01/30/2012
curl up to my blanket
02/03/2012
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