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Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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I use anal toys when I'm stressed out...
15
I don't use anal toys when I'm stressed out...
10
And it's unconfortable.
1
And it relaxes me.
12
Other (please tell?)
8
Total votes: 46 (37 voters)
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Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
I have to be very relaxed and warm up to use any anal toy
05/31/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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I have to have longer foreplay to relax enough to use an anal toy.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When I get into anal play - its often to take my mind off the stress. So I go a little slower and it works fine.
06/01/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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never really tried it.
06/01/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by digit88
never really tried it.
Same. But I almost never use anal toys.
06/01/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
Have to be in mood for anal toys.
06/02/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
It relaxes me
06/02/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Anal play tends to be a bit of a process for me, so I don't tend to do it very often but especially not when I'm stressed at all! It would just be one more thing to add to the list of annoyances
06/03/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Don't know. If I'm stressed, I won't be in the mood to play at all.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Th8405 Th8405
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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Would not do it while stressed
06/04/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
You have to take your stress into account and be able to de-stress, but anal fun can be a good reward for figuring out how to relax.
06/09/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Now that you mention it I've noticed that I engage into anal play (both solo or with my girlfriend) mostly at times of high stress. It gives me a very deep relaxing feeling and I sleep like a kid
06/12/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Sex in general tends to be relaxing...and so does whiskey. To be really relaxed, a like to have both (usually the whiskey first).
06/12/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
It relaxes me moreso.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Mx.Nekora Mx.Nekora
Some good lube and an anal toy....And i'm relaxed. It's awesome.
06/12/2012
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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Spending time together has a way of relaxing both of us...
06/15/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Never thought about it as a relaxing aid.
06/15/2012
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
Depends on the stress. Anal play will stimulate the vagus nerve that can lead to relaxation. If you have ever heard the phrase "bug up your butt", it is based on a personality. You can effect that anal retentive stressed out feeling by stretching the anal sphencters. Much like getting a massage of your nervous system. Can do wonders.
06/15/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

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don't use
06/15/2012
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

Private voting.
relaxing when i get off so i like to use them when stressed
06/16/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
If I am truly stressed sex in general doesn't really cross my mind. I should take time out to play with a toy because I know that it can relax.
06/19/2012
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
Often, when we are stressed out, our muscles are tense and it feels like it's impossible to breathe properly. Do you refrain from using anal toys because the tension makes it unconfortable, or in the contrary, does it relax you?

Private voting.
I want sex more when I'm stressed so it's gonna happen....I find trying anal when I'm stressed forces me to focus on other things and relax
06/25/2012