Anal beads for newbies

Contributor: karay123 karay123
My husband and I are not new to anal sex but are new to anal toys. I added some beads to a recent Eden order because I figured, why the heck not?! Don't knock it 'til you try it, right? But to be honest, I have NO IDEA how to use them (and of course there are no instructions, ha). Do you put them in and leave them during sex or is the turn-on from pulling them out? I realize there may be more than one "right" way, just looking for ideas. Thanks!
12/16/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Engaging topic analysis of Anal Sex:

Best video on slowly getting someone into anal sex?
What would you all say is the best starter video... (not necessarily an instructional type... but it can be as well) for delicately introducing anal..

Can you orgasm from anal?
can a person orgasm from just anal sex or is there double penetration or clitoral stimulation involved as well?

First Anal Toy I should buy?
I'm not *new* to anal...we've had anal sex before, but it has been a long time, so I'm trying to work my way back up to it. What is the first toy/set.

Best lube for anal
What's the best lube for anal sex?

Anal lubes
Does one need a special type of lube for anal sex?
Are there any really great ones on the market right now?
Please let me know Thanks in advance.
12/16/2011
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
You can actually use them a number of ways. If you just leave them in during sex, your husband might actually be able to feel them through the vaginal wall, which will provide texture for him as well as a fuller feeling for you. Pulling them out right as you orgasm is supposed to be a pretty intense feeling. Or you can put them in and pull them out more than once (might be a little hard to do during sex, but would work as foreplay). The popping sensation that occurs when you pull them out can be a little shocking, but it's pretty nice, and you can either pull them out all at once or more slowly.
12/16/2011
Contributor: karay123 karay123
Thanks! We'll play around!
12/16/2011
Contributor: Raizer911 Raizer911
I find leaving them in for extended play best. If you can time it right pulling them out quickly at the point of climax is a real winner
05/03/2012
Contributor: Raizer911 Raizer911
Hope this is going well now.
05/09/2012