I recently started exploring anal play, which led to amazing anal sex, which I never dreamed I'd do or like. My husband has dropped a few hints that he'd like me to explore him that way. Should I just start with my finger when we're fooling around, or start with something else? I'm open to suggestions!
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01/25/2022
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If he has been a bit aloof about if (i.e. dropping hints but not outright suggesting or initiating), he may be hoping you take the lead.
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything anal, and even when we do have a interest or delight, it can come down to semantics of what is and isn't appropriate for a heterosexual male to enjoy.
Hence, I recommend taking a more "by chance" approach. Maybe while playing a sexy card or dice game, eventually landing on something that you would do to him anally, starting out small of course.
Or, another good option is to have some shower fun. Get him nice and sexuallyexcited while you two shower together, and offer to wash him, paying extra care to sensually wash his genitals and posterior "very thoroughly".
Openness, acceptance, patience and consideration are key, although based on what you mentioned just in the post I'm pretty sure y'all got those down tight.
After a few positive experiences, who knows what you two may be up to after a while.
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything anal, and even when we do have a interest or delight, it can come down to semantics of what is and isn't appropriate for a heterosexual male to enjoy.
Hence, I recommend taking a more "by chance" approach. Maybe while playing a sexy card or dice game, eventually landing on something that you would do to him anally, starting out small of course.
Or, another good option is to have some shower fun. Get him nice and sexuallyexcited while you two shower together, and offer to wash him, paying extra care to sensually wash his genitals and posterior "very thoroughly".
Openness, acceptance, patience and consideration are key, although based on what you mentioned just in the post I'm pretty sure y'all got those down tight.
After a few positive experiences, who knows what you two may be up to after a while.
01/28/2022
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Thank you so much for the response and suggestions. I'm excited to try these!
Originally posted by
andrewg
If he has been a bit aloof about if (i.e. dropping hints but not outright suggesting or initiating), he may be hoping you take the lead.
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything ... more
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything ... more
If he has been a bit aloof about if (i.e. dropping hints but not outright suggesting or initiating), he may be hoping you take the lead.
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything anal, and even when we do have a interest or delight, it can come down to semantics of what is and isn't appropriate for a heterosexual male to enjoy.
Hence, I recommend taking a more "by chance" approach. Maybe while playing a sexy card or dice game, eventually landing on something that you would do to him anally, starting out small of course.
Or, another good option is to have some shower fun. Get him nice and sexuallyexcited while you two shower together, and offer to wash him, paying extra care to sensually wash his genitals and posterior "very thoroughly".
Openness, acceptance, patience and consideration are key, although based on what you mentioned just in the post I'm pretty sure y'all got those down tight.
After a few positive experiences, who knows what you two may be up to after a while. less
Oftentimes as a male, by default we're dissuaded to entertain the thought of us receiving anything anal, and even when we do have a interest or delight, it can come down to semantics of what is and isn't appropriate for a heterosexual male to enjoy.
Hence, I recommend taking a more "by chance" approach. Maybe while playing a sexy card or dice game, eventually landing on something that you would do to him anally, starting out small of course.
Or, another good option is to have some shower fun. Get him nice and sexuallyexcited while you two shower together, and offer to wash him, paying extra care to sensually wash his genitals and posterior "very thoroughly".
Openness, acceptance, patience and consideration are key, although based on what you mentioned just in the post I'm pretty sure y'all got those down tight.
After a few positive experiences, who knows what you two may be up to after a while. less
01/28/2022
Agreed, take the lead on it for sure! When my wife first started with me it was my suggestion. But she had me bent over the bed where she started with her tongue (or a lubed finger would work) and just massaged the outside for a while. This felt great. After a bit of that play she worked up 1 finger inside and I cam instantly. Since then I have been hooked on anal play and we have several toys for us to use. From butt plugs to strapons (though she has died out on doing so as much as we used too..) but they make for perfect pspot orgasms.
Another idea is to try a finger while giving him oral. This works well and provides great stimulation!
Enjoy and have fun!
Another idea is to try a finger while giving him oral. This works well and provides great stimulation!
Enjoy and have fun!
03/11/2022
Check out prostate massagers. Start with smaller sizes and use enough lubricant. Plastic and stainless steel are easier to clean and don’t retain smells. More sanitary than fingers. And if you have nice nails won’t hurt his tender body parts
03/16/2022
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As an option, finger massagers can solve the issue with the nails
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Check out prostate massagers. Start with smaller sizes and use enough lubricant. Plastic and stainless steel are easier to clean and don’t retain smells. More sanitary than fingers. And if you have nice nails won’t hurt his tender body parts
03/17/2022
Pantysissy88
Well I've got my wife to let me wear sexy thongs while we have sex. She was iffy at first but now she loves it. Then I introduced her to anal play with me. She loves making me please her pussy in my panties then she uses her fingers then work up to strap on and other toys. But if he wants it. Then while your having fun. Just stop and get behind him. Then tell him that he wanted this. So now he can enjoy it.
03/18/2022
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My partner started my anal journey by initiating oral sex, moving to sucking my balls, then suddenly using her tongue on my asshole. He continued stroking my cock the entire time, & I exploded with his tongue literally inside me. Great starting point
Originally posted by
whiffwild
I recently started exploring anal play, which led to amazing anal sex, which I never dreamed I'd do or like. My husband has dropped a few hints that he'd like me to explore him that way. Should I just start with my finger when we're
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I recently started exploring anal play, which led to amazing anal sex, which I never dreamed I'd do or like. My husband has dropped a few hints that he'd like me to explore him that way. Should I just start with my finger when we're fooling around, or start with something else? I'm open to suggestions!
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03/20/2022
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