We have several possibilities to suggest.

The Booty Throb has "Wings" that gyrate in and out and the entire toy vibrates.
Although it's a anal toy, it is sized nicely for vagina's. And properly used, it can be multi-purpose and shared also. It is powerful and comes with a handy remote. And rechargeable.

The Kai is a little on the large size but might be what you are looking for.
The head on the shaft rotates, there's bead few inches under on the shaft that rotate. And best of all it has a strong clit vibe

If Kai is too big, check out the Pulsar. (one of my wife's favorite's)This one also thrusts and has a rotating head. And a strong clit vibe.

If you like to read some detail reviews on them go to our review page. Some also have videos. Please remember to rate them if you stop by.

Hope you find what she needs. Happy wife, happy life