Does anyone use an anal toy on their boyfriend or spouse? I am looking to start! Wanted to know opinions.
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09/21/2015
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Omg, where to start ? What is he/you already doing ? Is he a beginner ? Does he use bps or engage in prostate massage ?
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Does anyone use an anal toy on their boyfriend or spouse? I am looking to start! Wanted to know opinions.
09/21/2015
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Well I've fingered him in the butt already he is willing to use an anal toy and let me have sex with him. We are open minded. He is a beginner but is comfortable with it all. He is not using bps.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Omg, where to start ? What is he/you already doing ? Is he a beginner ? Does he use bps or engage in prostate massage ?
09/21/2015
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Start small, work to bigger. Use lube.
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Well I've fingered him in the butt already he is willing to use an anal toy and let me have sex with him. We are open minded. He is a beginner but is comfortable with it all. He is not using bps.
May I suggest a anal kit i belive the Juli Ashton anal beginner – anal kit comes with everything you may need for starters.
There are several sexis guides covering the topic that may assist you also.
Enjoy.
09/22/2015
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Suggestion : Start with the Amethyst glass dildo. Then the Njoy Pure Wand. To keep him happy while you r playing with one of yours, let him use a Lelo Billy. Perform oral while giving him light thrusting with either the Amysth or pure wand. When he is ready for next step let me know. Good luck,
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Well I've fingered him in the butt already he is willing to use an anal toy and let me have sex with him. We are open minded. He is a beginner but is comfortable with it all. He is not using bps.
09/22/2015
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Oh I wish....I have brought it up several times with my husband but I always get "I'm not gay".... I know that he would like it if he tried it and tried to explain to him that it doesn't make him gay but he is a huge homophobe....NO DISRESPECT TO ANYONE
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Does anyone use an anal toy on their boyfriend or spouse? I am looking to start! Wanted to know opinions.
09/22/2015
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To each their own.
Originally posted by
ChasityMurvine
Oh I wish....I have brought it up several times with my husband but I always get "I'm not gay".... I know that he would like it if he tried it and tried to explain to him that it doesn't make him gay but he is a huge homophobe....NO
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Oh I wish....I have brought it up several times with my husband but I always get "I'm not gay".... I know that he would like it if he tried it and tried to explain to him that it doesn't make him gay but he is a huge homophobe....NO DISRESPECT TO ANYONE
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09/23/2015
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Lol, the one day he tries it, he will wish he started or you started long ago.
Originally posted by
ChasityMurvine
Oh I wish....I have brought it up several times with my husband but I always get "I'm not gay".... I know that he would like it if he tried it and tried to explain to him that it doesn't make him gay but he is a huge homophobe....NO
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Oh I wish....I have brought it up several times with my husband but I always get "I'm not gay".... I know that he would like it if he tried it and tried to explain to him that it doesn't make him gay but he is a huge homophobe....NO DISRESPECT TO ANYONE
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Maybe when some of current stuff gets old or vanilla or need new thrills , he'll want to give it a go. Long ago, I never ever would have considered it.
No hurry, as long as everyone is happy that is good enough.
note : the amount of blood in that entire region, front and back (pelvic) is magnified when both are stimulated at the same time. Tons of nerve ending in both areas.
09/23/2015
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Most definitely thank you
Originally posted by
TheToyGuy
Start small, work to bigger. Use lube.
May I suggest a anal kit i belive the Juli Ashton anal beginner – anal kit comes with everything you may need for starters.
There are several sexis guides covering the topic that may assist you ... more
May I suggest a anal kit i belive the Juli Ashton anal beginner – anal kit comes with everything you may need for starters.
There are several sexis guides covering the topic that may assist you ... more
Start small, work to bigger. Use lube.
May I suggest a anal kit i belive the Juli Ashton anal beginner – anal kit comes with everything you may need for starters.
There are several sexis guides covering the topic that may assist you also.
Enjoy. less
May I suggest a anal kit i belive the Juli Ashton anal beginner – anal kit comes with everything you may need for starters.
There are several sexis guides covering the topic that may assist you also.
Enjoy. less
09/25/2015
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Thanks now to get started
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Suggestion : Start with the Amethyst glass dildo. Then the Njoy Pure Wand. To keep him happy while you r playing with one of yours, let him use a Lelo Billy. Perform oral while giving him light thrusting with either the Amysth or pure wand. When
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Suggestion : Start with the Amethyst glass dildo. Then the Njoy Pure Wand. To keep him happy while you r playing with one of yours, let him use a Lelo Billy. Perform oral while giving him light thrusting with either the Amysth or pure wand. When he is ready for next step let me know. Good luck,
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09/25/2015
My wife and i don't personally use any anal toys on each other even though she has gone down on me and rubbed her vibrator down there very very close and it felt so amazing. I want to tell her it would probably be ok if she did use her toy down there on me but am too shy and scared to tell her.
09/26/2015
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why not put it in there and surprise her. When she goes down, she'll say," What's this ?". Your answer, " Just give it a few pumps, honey."
Originally posted by
Andykh
My wife and i don't personally use any anal toys on each other even though she has gone down on me and rubbed her vibrator down there very very close and it felt so amazing. I want to tell her it would probably be ok if she did use her toy down
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My wife and i don't personally use any anal toys on each other even though she has gone down on me and rubbed her vibrator down there very very close and it felt so amazing. I want to tell her it would probably be ok if she did use her toy down there on me but am too shy and scared to tell her.
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Of course use a condom on her toy. Or purchase one of your own. Check out EF's P - spot massagers. Great pricing. You prob should experience it on your own before asking her to anyway.
09/26/2015
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Thanks for the idea im just scared she might think im gay which ain't true none what so ever.
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
why not put it in there and surprise her. When she goes down, she'll say," What's this ?". Your answer, " Just give it a few pumps, honey."
Of course use a condom on her toy. Or purchase one of your own. Check ... more
Of course use a condom on her toy. Or purchase one of your own. Check ... more
why not put it in there and surprise her. When she goes down, she'll say," What's this ?". Your answer, " Just give it a few pumps, honey."
Of course use a condom on her toy. Or purchase one of your own. Check out EF's P - spot massagers. Great pricing. You prob should experience it on your own before asking her to anyway. less
Of course use a condom on her toy. Or purchase one of your own. Check out EF's P - spot massagers. Great pricing. You prob should experience it on your own before asking her to anyway. less
09/26/2015
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Your welcome.
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Most definitely thank you
09/27/2015
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Have her read some of Ruby Rider writings. Of course she will get very suspicious when she reads it.
Originally posted by
Andykh
Thanks for the idea im just scared she might think im gay which ain't true none what so ever.
09/28/2015
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Who is ruby rider?
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Have her read some of Ruby Rider writings. Of course she will get very suspicious when she reads it.
09/28/2015
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There's an internet for that.
Originally posted by
Andykh
Who is ruby rider?
09/29/2015
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I had never heard of her. Guess im behind in the times lol. I have since googled it and thanks for the advice
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
There's an internet for that.
09/29/2015
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bps?
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Omg, where to start ? What is he/you already doing ? Is he a beginner ? Does he use bps or engage in prostate massage ?
09/29/2015
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Butt plugs im guessing lol
Originally posted by
edeneve
bps?
09/29/2015
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c'mon - for a beginner? those are seriously HUGE!!! owwwwwwwwwwww
Originally posted by
OH&W, Lovebears
Suggestion : Start with the Amethyst glass dildo. Then the Njoy Pure Wand. To keep him happy while you r playing with one of yours, let him use a Lelo Billy. Perform oral while giving him light thrusting with either the Amysth or pure wand. When
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Suggestion : Start with the Amethyst glass dildo. Then the Njoy Pure Wand. To keep him happy while you r playing with one of yours, let him use a Lelo Billy. Perform oral while giving him light thrusting with either the Amysth or pure wand. When he is ready for next step let me know. Good luck,
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09/29/2015
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There are lots of videos online. Maybe you could find a couple of them that clarifies the 'gay' issue. I'm pretty sure there will suggestions about how to tell her about your desire.
Originally posted by
Andykh
Thanks for the idea im just scared she might think im gay which ain't true none what so ever.
That's enough from me. I'm outta here.
waving hand can mean bye too, yes?
09/29/2015
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Huge ? Small size of the pure wand is small. Amethyst and Billy are also. He needs to feel them for pleasure, you know. Well, I guess since I started with bps and gradually move up in size it was easier.
Originally posted by
edeneve
c'mon - for a beginner? those are seriously HUGE!!! owwwwwwwwwwww
09/29/2015
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I have read up on somethings that OH told me about. Thanks to both of u for the advice
Originally posted by
edeneve
There are lots of videos online. Maybe you could find a couple of them that clarifies the 'gay' issue. I'm pretty sure there will suggestions about how to tell her about your desire.
That's enough from me. I'm outta ... more
That's enough from me. I'm outta ... more
There are lots of videos online. Maybe you could find a couple of them that clarifies the 'gay' issue. I'm pretty sure there will suggestions about how to tell her about your desire.
That's enough from me. I'm outta here.
waving hand can mean bye too, yes? less
That's enough from me. I'm outta here.
waving hand can mean bye too, yes? less
09/29/2015
Roy
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I love it in the but.
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Does anyone use an anal toy on their boyfriend or spouse? I am looking to start! Wanted to know opinions.
My girl thinks it is nasty and won't help me in this?? I had one that did a long time ago and or sex was omg the fucking BOMB!!!
It's a lot of fun and I wish ther were more females that didn't get so freaked out by putting a something in there man.
I have never been with another guy but I know I like the big fake ones hard and fast
OMG
IF HE DON'T LET YA COME DO ME
09/30/2015
Roy
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Bps?????
Originally posted by
LadyThor
Well I've fingered him in the butt already he is willing to use an anal toy and let me have sex with him. We are open minded. He is a beginner but is comfortable with it all. He is not using bps.
09/30/2015
The biggest hurdle is getting to accepting three fingers with relative comfort. I think after that, penetration by cock or toy is relatively easy.
09/30/2015
The wife rather enjoys being in charge and having the harness on. She keeps getting bigger and bigger toys for it though.
10/02/2015
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B _ _ t p _ _ gs. Need a hint ? Has to do with the o t. (original thread)
Originally posted by
Roy
Bps?????
10/03/2015
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Do you experience any soreness the next day ? What do you do for it ? Anything ?
Originally posted by
bluepeg
The wife rather enjoys being in charge and having the harness on. She keeps getting bigger and bigger toys for it though.
10/03/2015
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