How do you feel about using anal toys as a man? Elaborate if you wish.
Do you feel any less manly by using anal toys?
07/15/2012
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Anal play for me is very masculine. That is just my perspective, and perceptions of masculinity vary from person to person. I feel no less manly when using anal toys.
07/16/2012
Doesn't bother me one bit
07/16/2012
Not sure why it would make a guy feel less manly, it feels good so why not. It certainly does not change the fact that I am a man.
07/16/2012
I think it tends to be people who haven't used anal toys who feel insecure about the masculinity of it. The ones who have are always perfectly fine with anal toys, thus why they've used them.
07/16/2012
Less manly? No, not for me. Anal play give me more physical pleasure than almost anything, as it's also tied with vulnerability So I think it makes me feel stronger, as I allow myself to accept pleasure in ways that aren't always socially sanctioned....the terms manly or womanly....those don't tend to set well with me anyways because to me they restrictive whereas I want expansiveness and inclusivity.
07/16/2012
Not at all. While there's the obvious "it's not even gay" part, even if it were gay, it wouldn't make it less "manly". Homosexuality is a fairly modern concept in the Western world, created only by religious stigma. In ancient Rome, it was very unusual for a man to exclusively prefer women. In feudal Japan, it was actually considered more noble to be homosexual.
So no, I don't feel any less manly.
So no, I don't feel any less manly.
07/16/2012
Not at all, I'm very secure about using anal toys
07/16/2012
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Why would a guy feel less masculine? Loving anal play isn't a gay activity...liking anal play with warm penis attached to another guy is a definite indication that a guy is probably gay or maybe bi-sexual.
Originally posted by
lulz
How do you feel about using anal toys as a man? Elaborate if you wish.
07/16/2012
I hate when men I'm with say it's "gay" or somehow not masculine. Jesus Christ, people. It's your body, fucking enjoy it.
07/16/2012
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This made me laugh
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
Why would a guy feel less masculine? Loving anal play isn't a gay activity...liking anal play with warm penis attached to another guy is a definite indication that a guy is probably gay or maybe bi-sexual.
But on topic of the post, I have been enjoying anal play with toys as a male for many years. It is a great feeling and a great way to express sexual desires and pleasures. Being happy with yourself and happy sexually is important I feel. Being a male and enjoying self anal pleasure with toys doesn't really change anything.
07/16/2012
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