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Does anyone ever discuss openly with your friends about self anal pleasure and the use of anal toys?

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Contributor: mlmac mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I wonder who amongst all my friends actually participate in this kind of activity. I can't be the only one.
So anyway, I voted No never, but who knows, that might change later.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No, never.
40  (60%)
Yes, but only a certain few.
27  (40%)
Yes, I'm very open about it with all my friends.
Total votes: 67
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
A couple friends know that I own a butt plug or two, but it's not something I discuss in great detail.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Mostly with my online friends.
02/26/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Yes, but only seriously with one friend. My other friends are interested, but in an "ewww cool" kind of way, haha.
02/26/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
Occasionally with specific friends, but never detailed accounts.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
Sadly other than sharing my thoughts here on Eden I don't share it with anyone so much in real life. Sad but true!
02/26/2012
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
Speaking from my experience, men generally don't talk to other men about such things.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
I actually attended an Anal 101 workshop with some friends once. That was cool. We haven't talked much about our actual play experiences beyond that, though we aren't opposed to discussing it.
02/26/2012
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Other? I wouldn't just talk about it with anyone indiscriminately, but if someone was to bring it up, sure, why not. I worked in a sex store for over a year so it's a pretty normal topic for me. In the shop, I would regularly talk with customers about what my favourite plugs and recommendations were. So while it's not just common knowledge within my friend circles, if any friend of mine asked me honestly I would absolutely have a conversation with them about anal play
02/26/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
It's not the type of thing we share in my group.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Only here on Eden. My normal friends don't share much about their sex lives, so anal sex is probably a shocker to them!
02/26/2012
Contributor: Llewey Llewey
I do rarely. Normally it's with a gay male. I tried mentioning it to another friend of mine and she was disgusted at the mere mention of it. I wish I had more sex-positive friends...
02/26/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
No, never
02/26/2012
Contributor: xGOLDx xGOLDx
To varying degrees with certain friends. Some I go butt plug shopping with, some it is just the odd passing comment. Different levels of comfort around the topic with people, but I'm also the open to fault person in the group.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I wish i had friends like that. Sometimes you just gotta tell someone about the new sex toys you ordered.
03/02/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Not all my friends are close enough, but among my really good, close friends, I talk about sex an awful lot! I really love discussing sex and sexuality (which is part of why I love Eden so much!!) so it's natural for me to want to do that with friends I trust. Anal actually hasn't come up tons, but I have no qualms talking about it with the people I'm comfortable with. Mostly, it seems we discuss fetishes and specific behaviors. I actually found out recently that a good friend of mine shares my most favoritest awesomest fetish! So that's pretty cool, kinda gives us a new understanding of each other!
03/21/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
not yet, but I would if conversation ever turns that way.
03/22/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
No.
03/24/2012
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
Nope
03/24/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
No way, other than my girlfriend, my other friends are way too close-minded.
03/27/2012
Contributor: Roz W Roz W
I feel like stuff with my friends has a comfortable enough joking-vibe that it's okay to sometimes not be joking. Ha ha, buttsex! No seriously guys, buttsex.

I'm laughing with you, not *at* you, buttsex.
04/02/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
No, not sure my friends are open minded enough.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
one of the only things i still dont share with close friends that i do share most sex info with. maybe later
04/05/2012
Contributor: corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
We haven't really tried any anal-play, so I've got nothing to share. I do have a few friends that are quite open with me on such matters though, and would like to think that I would be as chatty about new experiences.
04/05/2012
Contributor: dragonn dragonn
Quote:
Originally posted by Incendiaire
Mostly with my online friends.
Same here :/
04/06/2012
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
No, never!

I could never discuss the details of my sexual activities with friends or family.
04/06/2012
Contributor: Roshandala Roshandala
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
Theres a stigma attached to it in todays society but it really isnt that big of a deal.
02/23/2013
Contributor: StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by mlmac
Discussing anything about sticking toys up your butt or self anal pleasure is not something that is talked about with my friends. They seem to think that if you do, you must be weird or gay or something, although we all joke about it.
Sometimes I ... more
I've encouraged my friends to try what we call "butt hole pleasures." I have a pretty open group of girl friends.
02/24/2013
Contributor: Two Grand Two Grand
No I dont discuss my sex life with any one, they wouldn"t understand. so I just keep it to my self, even when I have a plug inserted.
02/25/2013
Contributor: Vaginas Vaginas
I just helped my friend get on this site and make her first order. anal was discussed lol
02/25/2013