I am a big fan of butt plugs, but I have been reluctant to wear them for more than a couple of hours. Obviously, if it starts to hurt you should take it out, but aside from that, is there a point where you are leaving it in too long? I'd be curious to know the maximum amount of time people have left their plugs in.
I have worn one for about 8 hours as well. I have heard of people sleeping with them in though, so 8 hours seems like not a big deal. I think I have heard of people that wore them for long periods (days) just taking them out to defecate, but I haven't ever done that so I cannot comment on the safety or how comfortable that is.
I've done overnight once. Safety wise there isn't a big deal from wearing them a long time, but it just seems like it could get inconvenient and ... messy now and then. After a while I do find that it gets a bit uncomfortable as the lubricant dries out or rubs off, and I'm not sure how to deal with that. Oil lubes seem to work better, but they're messier on clothing.
Generally now I keep my "plugged time" to ~4 hours max because of the lube thing. Removing a plug that's lost it's lube is not too fun.
It's nice to leave it in for a while because it provides extended stimulation to the prostate and a prolonged feeling of anal fullness. For some people, keeping them in during the day can be a nice way of having a private thrill in public.
How long? For me it depends on the plug and what I am doing. If I find it uncomfortable I take it out. I carry a small bag in my purse for that purpose.
I love the stimulation esp when driving and running errands. Never went for eight hours, also for the prior reasons.
The Njoy med and the Tristan are my favorites for extended wear but for solo play or sex many others provide additional delicious stimulation towards orgasmic bliss.
Can I ask a really naive question? Why would anyone want to leave one in for a long time?
The longest I have ever kept one in was about 3 hours, and for me, it's all about the arousal I get while walking around with one in. It's a type of foreplay for me, and I do it when I know that as soon as I get home hubby will be there to take care of business.
I like the competitive sport idea. Maybe it could be combined with curling in the winter games. That would definitely make curling much more interesting to watch!
I like the competitive sport idea. Maybe it could be combined with curling in the winter games. That would definitely make curling much more interesting to watch!
I think the longest I can go is about 9 hours. And that's only cuz I got stuck in traffic on the way home! And it was a pain and a million to get out!
But i went out to the mall once with it. Bought (and tried on) some jeans, shirts, and stuff. Got some shoes. Went to Best Buy. And the entire time I was crazy turned on. Every little thing I did had this new context and stuff.
Saying it out loud, that doesn't make a lot of sense, but it felt super sexy at the time. Me and my girlfriend once went on a whole date by starting it off putting plugs in each other. Then we went to lunch. Saw a movie. Went shopping (Side note: I think we bought our first blender or toaster or something that day). And we'd occasionally give each other a little slap on the ass... which is somewhat innocent in public (or raunchy, depending on your 'hood)... super sexy to the two of us. Had to wear some tighter underwear that day to keep the erection from showing all day!
IMO, it should be part of a televised national sport!
I've personally never had one in for more than two to three hours... But I'm reluctant to keep it in for too long for the aforementioned reasons of discomfort and lube depletion. I'm also a bit new to the whole butt plug scene too, so that makes me a little less likely to go to any extreme.
Wow. I've decided I am going to learn so much new stuff being apart of this community. This was my first "wow, I did not know that" thread. Good read guys! Thanks for the insight ;] I might have to try this.
Ive done 10 hrs but will probably not doing it again. The lube dries and its hard to get out.
I thought about getting one of these link for a voyeur/shopping fantasy.
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05/03/2010
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Greetings All! So my question is, has the butt plug improved your ability to be sodomized or "take it"? Meaning does it loosen the anus? I get super tight very quickly, and I want to be a bit more loose/relaxed/open...
For long term wear: Invest in a good quality, thin stemmed plug that stays put, and a good thick lube. Non-porous stainless & glass tend to stay lubed longer, a curved plug is better, a good flared base is a must.
I prefer the NJoy Pure Plug large, typically worn 6-8 hours at a time, mostly for the naughty factor and always for the great fun afterwards, g/f likes her Pure Plug medium. Sometimes I sleep with mine in, never had a lube problem with removal. Everyone's different, re-lube as needed. Usually after a bathroom break and hot shower you should be able to wear one around a good while. (Always take a break and remove it if there is any pain or major discomfort, there should be none). Sometimes there may be very minor discomfort for beginners when first starting out, this is normal and usually goes away after an hour or so.
One trick I tried with this stainless plug (If I go out) was to weave a folded paper napkin or paper towel around the inner ring figure-eight style and lightly saturate it with some thick long-lasting skin moisturizing lotion like Aveeno daily moisturizing lotion link Stops it from chafing and a very comfortable topical lotion for longer term wear, works great. (This method actually provides a little extra lube to the plug stem area which can help keep you comfortable after several hours).
Long term wear quickly gets easier with practice, work your way up gradually. I often wear this plug out in public with no worries. Get the right plug and a thick, long-lasting lube and have some fantastic naughty fun!
Highly recommended for long term wear: NJoy Pure Plugs (medium or large) : link
I am a big fan of butt plugs, but I have been reluctant to wear them for more than a couple of hours. Obviously, if it starts to hurt you should take it out, but aside from that, is there a point where you are leaving it in too long? I'd be
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I am a big fan of butt plugs, but I have been reluctant to wear them for more than a couple of hours. Obviously, if it starts to hurt you should take it out, but aside from that, is there a point where you are leaving it in too long? I'd be curious to know the maximum amount of time people have left their plugs in.
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I had one in when we went to dinner last night..about three hours wear. Then we came home and it was late, but hubby pulled it out and immediately replaced it with his tool. After he came in me, about twenty minutes or so, he popped the plug back in "so I wouldn't leak and wet the bed" till I got up to go potty (he was still busy licking my breasts and kissing me). Well. we BOTH fell SOUND asleep, and we slept a solid NINE hours before the dogs woke us up!!!! Thus, for the most part, I had a "plug" in me for over 12 hours. When I did realize it was in, I went to the bathroom, but it was NOT "too" stuck or dry (probably since he had deposited a nice load of sperm in me before putting it back in, plus had used a BIG dose of silicone lube prior to anally enjoying me. He also had re-lubed the plug with a big dollup of lube before putting it back in my tushy, despite the fact I was wet and slippery at that point.
Anyway, it was a twelve hour "plug a thon" and my tail is no worse for wear. In fact, if my dear hubby comes in from working on the yard, I will have him sit HIS tush in this office chair, and take him back up MY tush while finishing my EF notes for the day.
(It is FUN having him in me AS I surf EF. Kind of keeps me SEX FOCUSED.
Last week, he pulled my chair away, bent me over the keyboard and took me vaginally and then anally while I was typing. Oh so naughty. We keep a large tube of lube on the computer table now!!!! Cannot be TOO ready, you know!
Greetings All! So my question is, has the butt plug improved your ability to be sodomized or "take it"? Meaning does it loosen the anus? I get super tight very quickly, and I want to be a bit more loose/relaxed/open...
I have to answer this one. Despite LOVING anal, and having done it for years, I am TIGHT AS A TICK. Even wearing plugs for many hours has NEVER changed that fact. Even with ONE FINGER in , I am TIGHT. My hubbies penis is the biggest thing that goes in me "back there"...but even with frequent anal play, I have ALWAYS been and stayed tight. It is a BIT easier to take him immediately after having been "pre stretched" by a plug? Sure...but either way, we use lots of lube, go slow, and it is never a problem anyway.
Wow. I've decided I am going to learn so much new stuff being apart of this community. This was my first "wow, I did not know that" thread. Good read guys! Thanks for the insight ;] I might have to try this.
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