Need tips to keep my toy inside me - Naughty-Boy (Fisrt time failed)

Contributor: sry sry
I have a Naughty-boy just tried using it a few minutes ago and it doesn't want to stay in. I slide it in and it shoots out.

It has a bump thing that's supposed to keep it in place, but when I put it in then it slips out a little. Any tips?

I put it in with my knees to my chest.. is there a better way to put one of these things in?

I'm thinking I need a bigger toy or something, maybe one with a bigger keep in place bump (what do you call that part). This is my first anal toy..

Any help is appreciated.
Thanks
02/13/2009
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Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Do you mean the red boy or rude boy bcs I can't find any plugs called naughty boy.

If it pops out there is habitually nothing you can do to make it stay in unless you sit on it. It's not you but how the toy is constructed. It probably doesn't have a neck that is substantially thinner than the rest of the toy to allow it to *lock* into place. Hope this helps.
02/13/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Looking around I found a prostate massager called the naughty boy, I think that's what TWG is talking about. Eden doesn't carry it.

I have a prostate massager of a similar style (Prock), and Naughty Student is right, these toys don't have quite enough of a bulge to catch, especially once you get excited. I usually use mine sitting down, with a chair pressing up against the base in order to keep it in (I do use a towel to keep things nice, before anyone starts making sounds of disgust). Other methods can be contrived, and hands can be used when necessary (but using them does change the experience. If you like to use it laying down, I'd recommend coming up with something that has a small chunk of something that will press against the perenium bit (wood would be an easy choice, you could press your foot or a handy wall against the other end).

Best of luck, and perhaps you could post with your solution.
02/13/2009
Contributor: sry sry
Yeah Eden Doesn't carry it. How much of a diameter bigger does a toy have to be at the bulge spot than the neck for it to stay in place? I'm probably going to get a different toy but this one was expensive and kinda sucks that it doesn't work so well. I'll have to try using it on my chair. Right now I only tried using it in my bed, but I too put a towel down. Hehe
02/13/2009
Contributor: Nashville Nashville
I know underwear helps me when I use toys, they tend to slip out but wearing panties as tight and as high on my hips as possible will keep the toy in. Would that work for men too???
02/13/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Nashville
I know underwear helps me when I use toys, they tend to slip out but wearing panties as tight and as high on my hips as possible will keep the toy in. Would that work for men too???
That's a good suggestion...the cotton boxer-briefs should do the trick!
02/13/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by sry
Yeah Eden Doesn't carry it. How much of a diameter bigger does a toy have to be at the bulge spot than the neck for it to stay in place? I'm probably going to get a different toy but this one was expensive and kinda sucks that it doesn't ... more
Part of the problem with vibrating prostate massagers is that they tend to be heavy for their size and the vibrations make things hard to hold in - for a plug, 1/2" difference usually works OK, but I'm not sure about a vibrating massager.

Give it a try with tight shorts- that might just work.
02/13/2009
Contributor: sry sry
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Originally posted by ScottA
Part of the problem with vibrating prostate massagers is that they tend to be heavy for their size and the vibrations make things hard to hold in - for a plug, 1/2" difference usually works OK, but I'm not sure about a vibrating ... more
Hmm, how stimulating is a plug vs a prostate massager?

I haven't yet experienced the vibrating part yet, Because the toys vibrator broke during shipping or something. They are shipping me a new one. (I didn't buy from Eden)

And if I use the plug and put the mini vibrator on it would that work, like carry the vibrations even though its not inserted inside it? I'm brand new to toys so I have no clue about anything.

I was thinking one of these... Also can I masturbate with a plug in how big does the flared base have to be for it to be considered safe?
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02/13/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
It depends what you want to do - I have a Ryder, and it's great as a stay-put plug, but it's not as stimulating as some of the other plugs I have. The only time I had a problem with the base of the Ryder was when I tried to push it all the way in with my finger, so I guess the safety question depends on how violently you orgasm, but it would probably be OK. In general, you just want to make sure that there is some sort of a flare (usually 1/2" or more on a side) to keep it from going all the way inside.

Yes, by all means you can masturbate with a plug, and it feels great! For a plug to use while masturbating I like a slightly heavier base so that I can wiggle the plug around against my prostate from time to time. I have the Bronco, and like it a lot, but there are other plugs that would work well, just spend some time checking out the plugs section of your favorite toy store.

The difference between plugs and prostate massagers is somewhat flexible, given that almost any plug will also stimulate the prostate. Most of the time, plugs are bigger and more "filling", whereas prostate massagers are often smaller and generally have some way to move it against the prostate (vibrator, handle, or a specially designed shape that translates pelvic muscle movements into prostate stimulation). Since you already have a dedicated prostate massager, you might want to look at a plug to give you some variety, and then when your new vibrator comes you can try out both and see what you like.
02/13/2009
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
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Originally posted by Victoria
That's a good suggestion...the cotton boxer-briefs should do the trick!
Actually I had thought of that except I hadn't suggested it considering its hard to jerk off with tight boxers on but maybe it could work. Good luck.
02/14/2009
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Actually I had thought of that except I hadn't suggested it considering its hard to jerk off with tight boxers on but maybe it could work. Good luck.
Boxer-Briefs have a fly, so it should be fairly easy
02/14/2009
Contributor: Peg Peg
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
Actually I had thought of that except I hadn't suggested it considering its hard to jerk off with tight boxers on but maybe it could work. Good luck.
A jock-strap might be what you are looking for, we used one with the Big Flirt, plus there is no fly to hassle with.
02/14/2009