So I'm a healthy 24 yr male and I just started out with anal/prostate play a month ago. My first sex toy was lelo hugo. I love my hugo a lot but I wanted something to stimulate my prostate while hugo is charging. I mostly ride hugo in the bathroom cause I live with my parents and thankfully they don't know or hear a thing about me having and using a prostate toy in the bathroom and I like to keep it that way. I luckily have pelvic floor disfunction and my parents know i pee only drops out at a time, so it takes me several hours in the bathroom before i even knew what anal play was. So I really love riding hugo on the toilet seat cover so much I decided I wanted to spice things up with another prostate toy I can use while hugo is charging, so I ordered nexus revo extreme! I'm very excited about how different the experience will be riding prostate toy that rotates inside you and at the same time concerned that the revo extreme may be louder than hugo and running water in the sink won't dampen the noise enough where my parents may get suspicious. I plan to ride the extreme the same way I ride hugo on top of a tube type shampoo bottle on top of the toilet seat facing the toilet water tank. So here are the questions I have about the nexus revo extreme. What should I expect from the nexus revo extreme compared to the lelo hugo? Can I be sure it will find my prostate? How loud is it with all the settings up compared to the lelo hugo having its vibrations at Max intensity? Since this will be my first time using revo extreme what is the prep and how much water based lube should I use? I want to get the max fun out of this toy without accidently breaking it!