Best starter prostate massager?

Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop 02/14/2012

My bf wants to try a prostate massager. He's new to anal play, and he likes the idea of something vibrating.

Invited: All users.

Discussion Topics

1.
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
Which of these is good for a first time anal user? Or is there another one we should consider?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Bendable you too prostate massager
kawigrl , HannahPanda , klyte
3
Cheeky Boy (Blue)
PassionateLover2 , ellejay , Teacookie , EdenJP , Chou Wang , te , Kaltir , Highmaintenancegirl916 , Llewey , Andersonda , Apirka , sweetiejo , GoneBabyGone , Jake'n'bake , HannahPanda , True Pleasures , Undead , nakedbear , MissCandyland , Jon S , Kitten has left the site , Falsepast , Stinkytofu10 , dv8 , Nazaress , Zombirella , Breas , GONE! , potstickers
29
Get a grip
Dr. Joel Kaplan versatile prostate stimulator
Other
PassionateLover2 , Alan & Michele , Eliyahu , AnotherPrettyFace , Incendiaire
5
Total votes: 37 (35 voters)
Poll is closed
02/14/2012
  • Save Extra 50% On Sexobot Attachment
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Anal Sub Hook&Rope Kit for $28.99 Only
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
Of the 4 you have suggested, I would recommend the Cheeky Boy. In several reviews on this product, there has been testimony to its success. I am more of a Aneros product user for its patent approved design!
02/14/2012
Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Which of these is good for a first time anal user? Or is there another one we should consider?
Cheeky boy
02/14/2012
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
The Rude Boy.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Refrain from buying the so called Dr. Kaplan products, the worst crap on this planet... Other than that I would get a normal dildo in your favourite material, works like a charm and even better is the Billy. It's worth every penny and is just great (small enough for the beginner and universal for a pro), no shit!!!
02/15/2012
Contributor: te te
Cheeky boy should be fun for him. Use lots of lube!
02/15/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
First one? The ones on the end of your arms. Fingers are great.

As a second I'd say look at a G-spot wand, dildo or vibe, but do make sure there's a long handle or flare on it to prevent any anxiety.

I put the purpose built prostate massagers in a class for those who are intermediate - advanced. They're harder to drive and don't offer as many options.
02/15/2012
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
The Cheeky Boy is fun
02/16/2012
Contributor: Eliyahu Eliyahu
Ditto what ScottA says...I started off with a RudeBoy, but I think my wife's fingers would have been a better first choice (I enjoy them a lot more now that I'm accustomed to it all). I have a Billy, too, and it is a *wonderful* toy...worth every dollar, but I'm glad I waited until I had a little experience before getting/using it.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Chou Wang Chou Wang
Quote:
Originally posted by Eliyahu
Ditto what ScottA says...I started off with a RudeBoy, but I think my wife's fingers would have been a better first choice (I enjoy them a lot more now that I'm accustomed to it all). I have a Billy, too, and it is a *wonderful* toy...worth ... more
Can not agree more, however her fingers aren't there if you're aloon
02/16/2012
Contributor: kawigrl kawigrl
bendable is nice
02/16/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
First one? The ones on the end of your arms. Fingers are great.

As a second I'd say look at a G-spot wand, dildo or vibe, but do make sure there's a long handle or flare on it to prevent any anxiety.

I put the purpose built ... more
I have the Pure Wand, Mark O2, and various butt plugs that are all sterilizable and shareable that he can play with. But he really likes the idea of a prostate vibrator, and none of my vibes are really anal safe. *ponders* I suppose G-Ki is, if it's curled around, but I don't think that'd be ideal.
02/16/2012
Contributor: AnotherPrettyFace AnotherPrettyFace
i say start smaller
02/17/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Chou Wang
Can not agree more, however her fingers aren't there if you're aloon
Your fingers are still there.

A little more complex to use, but still possible. They'll certainly help you figure out what types of anal stimulation you like best with a minimum of expense. Just a set of nail clippers, bar of soap, bottle of lube, and perhaps a glove.
02/18/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
The cheeky boy seems to be the most recomended
02/19/2012
Contributor: GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
Of the four the cheeky boy looks best for beginners.
02/19/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Cheeky boy!
02/19/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
Cheeky boy.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Which of these is good for a first time anal user? Or is there another one we should consider?
The cheeky boy
02/20/2012
Contributor: nakedbear nakedbear
Cheeky boy.
02/20/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Cheeky!
02/21/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I really don't like the Rocks Off prostate toys, so I'd avoid the cheeky boy. They have such an awkward shape, so before you buy it you have no idea if it's going to fit his inside body properly, and you don't want to get something which will turn him off the whole experience. I also find the bullet that powers them to be disappointing, by the time the vibrations travel through the length of the toy they don't feel very strong, and the single function isn't very stimulating.

I'd suggest the Lelo Billy, it's on the more expensive side but it's worth it. It isn't very thick, which is good for someone new to anal play. The vibrations are strong, and adjustable in intensity. It has several patterns of vibrations to choose from, which gives you the fun of variety, and the chance to pick one which works the best. It also has a handle, which means you can hold it and physically use it on him, while he just lies back and enjoys the ride. For a bonus, if he doesn't like it then you have yourself something which doubles as a great vibrator, so it won't go to waste.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I think I'll get the Cheeky Boy, but save up for Lelo Billy. If I can have multiple vibrators, no reason he can't too.
02/21/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Silverdrop
Which of these is good for a first time anal user? Or is there another one we should consider?
Cheeky boy. We have the Dr. Joel one and he didn't like it. It won't stay in unless you hold it in.
03/03/2012