Fairly new to anal toys. But during climax they always come out. Sometimes just with the motion. Anyone have a recommendation for what might stay put? Weve tried beads and a couple plugs. One was from our local shop. They said I would have no problem keeping it I.
Staying put
Jasda11
12/21/2018
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Dear Jasda11, welcome!
It's actually quite a common problem. You anus muscles are not used to hold on to anything for prolonged periods of times, so in order to trick it and make it hold on to the toy, there are a couple things you can do.
1) Pick a toy with a super narrow neck. If the difference between the neck of the toy and its body is significant, your muscles will obediently close around the neck and seal the toy inside quite safely.
2) Pick smaller toys. I know, it seems like it doesn't make a lot of sense, but bear with me. The bigger is the toy, the more aspired are the muscles of your sphincter to get rid of it and push it out. Plus, considering the bigger surface of the toy, your muscles would have more to push of off, hence the quicker "extraction". Smaller toys, on the other hand, won't feel as foreign, excluding that need of your anus to push them out.
3) Pick longer toys with texture. Not sure why you had any issues with the beads - they are typically what works in situations like that. Being so long they can't be pushed out easily - if they're inserted to the fullest, of course - and having a textured (beaded) body they create more resistance toward being pushed out.
Hope this helps!
It's actually quite a common problem. You anus muscles are not used to hold on to anything for prolonged periods of times, so in order to trick it and make it hold on to the toy, there are a couple things you can do.
1) Pick a toy with a super narrow neck. If the difference between the neck of the toy and its body is significant, your muscles will obediently close around the neck and seal the toy inside quite safely.
2) Pick smaller toys. I know, it seems like it doesn't make a lot of sense, but bear with me. The bigger is the toy, the more aspired are the muscles of your sphincter to get rid of it and push it out. Plus, considering the bigger surface of the toy, your muscles would have more to push of off, hence the quicker "extraction". Smaller toys, on the other hand, won't feel as foreign, excluding that need of your anus to push them out.
3) Pick longer toys with texture. Not sure why you had any issues with the beads - they are typically what works in situations like that. Being so long they can't be pushed out easily - if they're inserted to the fullest, of course - and having a textured (beaded) body they create more resistance toward being pushed out.
Hope this helps!
12/24/2018
One with a long, narrow neck is best for staying put.
12/26/2018
Jasda11
I can get the eggs to stay. So I guess smaller would make sense. Thanks
01/01/2019
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You should try the Doc Johnson's Mood Naughty plug. I recommend the large...it's not as big as you'd think. The biggest part is about 1.25" wide. The base neck is long and about a 1/2" wide, and it has a nice narrow base. It's my favorite...and it stays in no matter what. You could run a marathon with this one in and it'd stay put.
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Jasda11
I can get the eggs to stay. So I guess smaller would make sense. Thanks
01/02/2019
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Dear Jasda11, I would definitely recommend being more cautious with the eggs - they are not anal-purposed toys, they have no safe base and the toy might end up getting far deeper inside of you than you'd want it. So please, stick to toys designed for anal, aka equipped with a safe base.
Originally posted by
Jasda11
I can get the eggs to stay. So I guess smaller would make sense. Thanks
01/21/2019
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