Just wanting to find who what the average size on the large size of anal toys used.
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What is the largest object you have ever taken anally?
05/26/2010
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Two problems: you have a hole between 2 and 2.5 inches in diameter, and you tie length and width together. Some people can take long but thin, others can take fat but short.
06/05/2010
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That's a very good point. My biggest is over 3" in diameter but it's very short, maybe 6".
Originally posted by
ScottA
Two problems: you have a hole between 2 and 2.5 inches in diameter, and you tie length and width together. Some people can take long but thin, others can take fat but short.
06/11/2010
Vexed
The head of the largest dildo that I've taken in was 10" in girth. That was the thickest part of the toy. The shaft was 9" in girth. I couldn't take more than 7.5" of that toy in. It was too thick the make the curve inside of me in order to slide in deeper.
06/27/2010
Big enough to send me to the doctor because it tipped my tailbone. I think I told him I fell on it. LOL. I was on painkillers to 2 weeks and now know better not to stuff myself.
07/18/2010
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Yeouch! I'll have to remember that. o.0
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Big enough to send me to the doctor because it tipped my tailbone. I think I told him I fell on it. LOL. I was on painkillers to 2 weeks and now know better not to stuff myself.
07/27/2010
8" circumference on the largest diameter toy I've taken (between 2.5" and 2.75") and 8" length on the longest toy I've taken. Note that they were different toys...
07/27/2010
Man I am not a pro at anal, so not very much!
07/27/2010
According to my girlfriend, my head has been up there...while my foot was in my mouth. I must be talented
07/28/2010
A dildo has been up there...and a brush handle. I don't really want to talk about it.
07/28/2010
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Agreed. While I haven't had any problems, I haven't had anything longer than 8 inches, so I wouldn't know. Still, I don't think the length would matter as much to me as the width.
Originally posted by
ScottA
Two problems: you have a hole between 2 and 2.5 inches in diameter, and you tie length and width together. Some people can take long but thin, others can take fat but short.
07/28/2010
My pleasure plug #1. Well, for toys. My fiance is larger than that, but he's only been up there a few times, lol
07/28/2010
i would have to say my 1.5 inch soother glass plug, its amazing
07/31/2010
I am a big baby when it comes to anal....Just havin to much trouble with it...
07/31/2010
TIGERLILLY3
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I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I DONT UNDERSTAND
Originally posted by
brokenangel
I am a big baby when it comes to anal....Just havin to much trouble with it...
08/01/2010
Anal isn't for every one, but I can tell you, the key is in relaxation. If you are at all nervous, your anus will clench automatically. You have to "train" your self. Start with something small and thin, lie on your side with one leg bent and to the side, even propping up that leg on a pillow. Relax, use lube, and go slowly. It helps to be really aroused, maybe even using a vibe on your clit at the same time. I don't know if this is for you, but I found having a few drinks helped me relax a LOT and not think about it so much. I can also tell you that sometimes just putting the tip in and holding it there makes it uncomfortable. If you can slide it in past that first inch or two, it feels better. I know when I first started allowing my partner to fuck me anally, it was better if he just slowly put all of himself in me, than prodding the entry and holding his head right there. If he just slowly kept pushing until he was all the way in, it worked a lot better. Also, at first, he couldn't thrust, just hold himself all the way in and I would grind or rock a little bit and it felt great. Eventually I was able to allow him to thrust and I got used to it and started to really enjoy it. Good Luck!
08/01/2010
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Start with fingers and small things to get used to relaxing the anus and enjoying the feelings. I'd say plan on a couple of months before trying anything "full size", and be sure to use plenty of foreplay (both "front" and "back") and lube.
Originally posted by
TIGERLILLY3
I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I
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I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I DONT UNDERSTAND
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08/01/2010
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very nice advice!
Originally posted by
Maiden
Anal isn't for every one, but I can tell you, the key is in relaxation. If you are at all nervous, your anus will clench automatically. You have to "train" your self. Start with something small and thin, lie on your side with one leg
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Anal isn't for every one, but I can tell you, the key is in relaxation. If you are at all nervous, your anus will clench automatically. You have to "train" your self. Start with something small and thin, lie on your side with one leg bent and to the side, even propping up that leg on a pillow. Relax, use lube, and go slowly. It helps to be really aroused, maybe even using a vibe on your clit at the same time. I don't know if this is for you, but I found having a few drinks helped me relax a LOT and not think about it so much. I can also tell you that sometimes just putting the tip in and holding it there makes it uncomfortable. If you can slide it in past that first inch or two, it feels better. I know when I first started allowing my partner to fuck me anally, it was better if he just slowly put all of himself in me, than prodding the entry and holding his head right there. If he just slowly kept pushing until he was all the way in, it worked a lot better. Also, at first, he couldn't thrust, just hold himself all the way in and I would grind or rock a little bit and it felt great. Eventually I was able to allow him to thrust and I got used to it and started to really enjoy it. Good Luck!
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08/06/2010
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Thanks! Enjoying anal is a relatively new to me. I was one of those women who at first, refused and thought it was disgusting. Then I got over that, tried it, and it hurt so bad I didn't do it again for like 8 years. I used to be one of those women that preached about cleanliness, it not being "natural", the potential for you hurting yourself. Then when I started realizing that I was a sub, I actually started to fantasize about it, and so I researched it to calm my fears. Once I "loosened up" , literally and figuratively, it was easier.
Originally posted by
gabee
very nice advice!
08/06/2010
I have been four knuckles deep on myself. If I could just get the thumb in I could probably take the entire fist. That is the largest width of an object that has been in my ass. My biggest toy so far is a 8 in long x 2 inch wide realistic dong. It was intimidating at first but I love it now.
08/12/2010
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Ouch.
Originally posted by
PassionQT
Big enough to send me to the doctor because it tipped my tailbone. I think I told him I fell on it. LOL. I was on painkillers to 2 weeks and now know better not to stuff myself.
08/18/2010
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Don't force yourself. It will just cause you to tense up more. Like other people have said, work up from just a fingertip, well lubricated, to a little more, take it slow.
Originally posted by
TIGERLILLY3
I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I
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I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I DONT UNDERSTAND
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Also, if you have an orgasm or 8 before you even attempt anal penetration it will make it MUCH easier. It relaxes you, and if you are one to stay horny after orgasms, it works to your advantage. I've also found that having a dil or phallic vibe used vaginally REALLY helps. It's a familiar feeling and it is also stimulating at the same time.
Give it some time and some slow work. But, anal sex isn't for everyone. Some people have very unyielding anuses, I don't know why.
But, never never just grit your teeth and try to bear it. You could get hurt, badly. Only take as much as feels comfortable. And, if it hurts STOP!
08/18/2010
My index finger is the biggest thing that I've tried. I've never found it pleasurable so I don't really pursue it. Though, I'm thinking about getting the Bootie and seeing if I like that. It has so many positive reviews, they must be doing something right.
08/23/2010
Most of my anal play has been solo - seems like a good place to start. Now that I know my limits and what I like, It's easier for me to guide my partner. For me I've gone up to 2" - but prefer something in the 1-1.5" dia range.
I don't usually do it very deep - but I have gone up to 7.5"
I don't usually do it very deep - but I have gone up to 7.5"
08/23/2010
gcrheegr
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The trick for me was to push against it, from within. Then it seems to slide right in (well lubricated of course). Once it's in, hang on for the ride.
Originally posted by
TIGERLILLY3
I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I
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more
I KNOW THE FEELING.... GUESS IM A BIG BABY TOO... IM TRYING THIS BUT IT HURTS AND SOMTIMES IT FEELS GOOD BUT I DONT HAVE IT IN ALL THE WAY... JUST A LITTLE... ITS BIG TROUBLE WITH ME... HOW DO THEY DO THIS AND MAKE IT FEEEEEEELLLLLL SOOOOOOOOO GOOD I DONT UNDERSTAND
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09/08/2010
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I wouldn't think "hang on for the ride" even if it's what you're doing. Thinking that would be more likely to tense you up than some other things. Make it so you know you're safe and then relax and enjoy the ride.
Originally posted by
gcrheegr
The trick for me was to push against it, from within. Then it seems to slide right in (well lubricated of course). Once it's in, hang on for the ride.
I know what you meant, though
09/16/2010
I answered the first one. I've had about a third of a finger and it didn't work for me lol
After reading everyone else's answers, I'm in pain!
After reading everyone else's answers, I'm in pain!
09/23/2010
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It's a process of learning how to relax. Your anus can open up easily to the 1.5-2" range - beyond that is more of a proposition.
Originally posted by
twistedheartsx
I answered the first one. I've had about a third of a finger and it didn't work for me lol
After reading everyone else's answers, I'm in pain!
After reading everyone else's answers, I'm in pain!
09/27/2010
7.5" circumference
10/01/2010
I can do the larger diameter/circumference , but definitely not longer than 10" though
10/01/2010