Advice for a newbie? Dildo.

Contributor: Kissy Kissy
I am looking for something SAFE and FLEXIBLE/SOFT/SQUISHY? I am pretty sensitive!

Suggestions for toys? Materials? Stay away from?
02/27/2012
  • Save Extra 50% On Sexobot Attachment
  • Long-distance pleasure set for couples
  • Upgrade Your Hands-Free Play!
  • Anal Sub Hook&Rope Kit for $28.99 Only
  • Complete strap-on set for extra 15% off
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Do you have an idea of what length or girth you'd like? That could help us narrow down the suggestions on specific toys.

As for material, I'd recommend silicone. It comes in varying levels of rigidity, but it's usually got some give to it. It's also completely body-safe, so it won't give you any nasty reactions if you're sensitive to chemicals.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
For safe and flexible/soft/squishy, I would definitely go with silicone. Do you have any idea of the size you want? I'd recommend anything by Tantus or Vixen Creations, especially the Tantus O2 or Supersoft, or Vixen Vixskin.
02/27/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Perpetua
For safe and flexible/soft/squishy, I would definitely go with silicone. Do you have any idea of the size you want? I'd recommend anything by Tantus or Vixen Creations, especially the Tantus O2 or Supersoft, or Vixen Vixskin.
Ditto - Vixskin is our favorite and it comes in many sizes to suit beginners all the up to 'queen' size. O2 is also good - but it's a bit firmer - still soft, just a different feel than Vixskin.
02/28/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Also echoing the VixSkin recommendation.

Stay away from low safety rated materials - jelly, etc.
02/28/2012
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
I LOVE my Bandito by Fun Factory because of how soft it is, but it may be too long/girthy if you're new to penetration.
02/28/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
VixSkin or Tantus are good ones although I'm not a dildo fan myself.
02/28/2012
Contributor: NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Kissy
I am looking for something SAFE and FLEXIBLE/SOFT/SQUISHY? I am pretty sensitive!

Suggestions for toys? Materials? Stay away from?
Depending on what you are interested in, I would suggest either Doc Johnson's The Original, Grrl Toyz,Tantus' Vip, or The Ella. All of these dildos are 100% medical grade silicone and can be washed, bleached, or boiled.

From greatest to least, in order of "squish," I would rate Vip, Grrl Toyz, The Original, then the Ella.
From thickest to thinnest in girth, I would rate Vip, The Original, Grrl Toyz, Ella.

Of the four, The Ella and The Original are my favorites. Although The Ella is less flexible, it is the easiest to use and most versatile.. The Original is girthy and textured. These are all affordable mid-level dildos. If you want to invest a little more in a product you KNOW you will love, I highly suggest a VixSkin product, like Maverick or Mustang. Tantus also produces very plush silicone and I highly suggest ALL of their products.

Hope this can move you in the right direction.
02/29/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Quote:
Originally posted by NarcissisticLust
Depending on what you are interested in, I would suggest either Doc Johnson's The Original, Grrl Toyz,Tantus' Vip, or The Ella. All of these dildos are 100% medical grade silicone and can be washed, bleached, or boiled.

From greatest ... more
I heard that the original Vip you linked to is pretty firm. The Super Soft version, on the other hand...
02/29/2012