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Contributor: That7Guy7 That7Guy7
Hello all,

we are new to the site as well as exploring anal play (pegging). We quickly bought the Fuze Tango 'strapless dildo' thinking it would be ideal for both wearer and receiver pleasure. Awesome toy, however we both found it too large, leading to more discomfort than the fun we were hoping for!

So we are in the search of a different option that is more forgiving on the sizes, mainly diameter. I do want some sort of stimulation while I peg, (the main reason we bought the Tango as it offered penetration and vibration for the wearer). in a perfect world, a smaller version of the Tango would be ideal.

Saying all that, we are currently looking at;

-Vixen nexus jr, does it need a harness? (if so, which one) is there a way to incorporate vibration?

or

- a harness with a bullet vibe pocket with either the Tantus silk medium dildo, or Fuze 10 Nova dildo

Any help/guidance/reviews or input would be so great!
02/10/2020
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Contributor: Croc Croc
well, if you are really ok with any input)

- any strapless needs a harness. No matter how you do your kegels, as you get worked up, you get wetter and it starts to slip out.

- vixen nexus jr is heavy according to some respondents, you'd better get a harness, it is about 1,5 pounds IIRC

- I bought Pretty Love Strapless Strap Vibrator, just before we started pegging. It was clumsy and maybe 3-3.5" insertable at best. Only good if he goes cowboy on you and you are just lying down. Though the more the better. It's very annoying, because the end always slips out as you bounce on it.
If you want to do the pounding, that's too short and you might need something with 6"-7" INSERTABLE for the receiver.
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can't say much because my gf is not too thrilled about pegging.
I'd say strapless strapons aren't too good. You'd better have an oring harness, a detachable dildo and a vibe for yourself.
Some harnesses have two detachable dils, one goes into you, one goes into him. The former can be anything you want - dildo, silicone vibe, glass toy, egg, etc
So far I'm considering SpareParts Joque
02/11/2020
Contributor: C and J C and J
I concur any strapless definitely needs a harness, just got a joque harness and it's the bees knees
02/12/2020
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Because I want my wife to enjoy pegging, we've tried a number of things in combination with the harness - for us there is no pegging without a harness.

We have a typical leather harness with leg straps (not a g-string style) - I bought the Aslan double-up cuff and position it so that it hold a dildo inside for her. After trial and error, we found that for this plan a shorter dildo works best. Our go to now is Vixskin Randy - she calls it 'stubby'

To increase it's effectiveness we now use a vibrating cock ring on 'stubby' - it works quite well for her, especially when I ride on top.

We also use a pair of panties to help hold the dildo in place.

We have added a vibrating butt plug to the mix - which was great fun, but don't do it often, she says there's just too much going on!
02/19/2020