Guys do you use toys on your partner, what size, what does she say about it?

My wife definitely enjoys toy time. Sometimes we just don't have time for a quickie because the kids might still be awake. And we don't want the bed to be squeaking and knocking against the wall. That being said we often fool around with her toys. She love her Hitachi magic wand while I use a glass toy on her. It's very erotic to watch her get extreme pleasure from her toys. I did some research about realistic dildos and came across the Vixskin Bandit. After reading the reviews I ordered one. I actually ordered the Chocolate one just for the shock value alone to see her expression while opening her new toy. This is by far the largest and realistic toy she has ever tried. We went out to dinner that night and after a drink I told her I couldn't wait to use her BBC on her. She told me to stop because she was getting tingly down there from the anticipation. To my surprise with plenty of lube she was able to the whole thing with a little resistance because she is definitely on the tighter side. She ended coming using using her clitty and her new toy together. She still prefers her glass toy over the Bandit. I think the silicone texture will take some getting used to. Will have to try again soon.