How do I get my wife in to playful play,

Contributor: Bulldog50 Bulldog50
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I would like to expand are play in the bedroom, tired of the same old thing. I love to get her off but just when she gets there she wonts me to stop....I do not get it....
11/29/2010
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Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Bulldog50
I would like to expand are play in the bedroom, tired of the same old thing. I love to get her off but just when she gets there she wonts me to stop....I do not get it....
I'm really not sure what exactly it is that you're asking. A bit more information and clarification would definitely be helpful.
11/29/2010
Contributor: J's Alley J's Alley
If you are referring to making you stop right before orgasm that could indicate that the orgasms may be too much to handle for her. I can't have the g-spot O because I make J stop due to the intensity that the feelings bring.

You might have to take it slow. Ask her if she has ever had an orgasm before and if she wants a vibe. Maybe if she tried it on her own she would be more apt to let you continue. Or, maybe it is just painful.
11/29/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
When we were younger my wife was all about clit orgasms. They were sharp and short - she couldn't stand to be touched afterward - it frustrated me to no end!

I first got a glimpse at changing the paradigm when I bought a rabbit style vibe (the Decadent Indulgence). Initially she would not let me use the shaft rotation feature - but once she did, the vaginal stimulation of her g-spot and a-spot changed the nature of her orgasms.

We don't use the dual-stimulators much any more - but we have quite a few dildos that I use inside her while she drives the clit vibe. The combination givers her blended vaginal/clit orgasms - that can go on for several minutes or result in multiple-peaks - all of it great fun!

Good luck!
11/29/2010