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Contributor: Floral Floral
It has been seven years since I had sex last and I haven't really been masturbating either, but I have recently been trying to get back into it. When I use my fingers my g-spot area continuing to the opening of the vagina is extremely super sensitive, much more so than when I was sexually active seven years ago. I can almost orgasm with gentle stimulation from fingers, but after the orgasm... later on... that area feels bruised. I don't think I am being rough.
I also have been trying dildos and they have the same effect. Using the Vixen Spur (which is small) I can barely stand the intense sensations that are coming from that g-spot to opening area. I had to completely stop and take a break once because the sensations were so powerful they were almost pain (I can only insert it about three inches or so. )
Is there something wrong with my body?
07/29/2011
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Contributor: jjonk jjonk
no your just not used to it any more and your vagina has gotten alot tighter too corect so if it did maybe u r useing to many fingers or to big of a dilldo
07/29/2011
Contributor: AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by Floral
It has been seven years since I had sex last and I haven't really been masturbating either, but I have recently been trying to get back into it. When I use my fingers my g-spot area continuing to the opening of the vagina is extremely super ... more
You should ease yourself back into sexual activity. If it has been a while, your clitoris, labia and vagina may be sensitive because the activities you are doing aren't something you've done in a while. Do what feels good and take it a little slow. If the pain persists after over time you might want to check with your doctor, just to be sure. More than likely you just need to build your stamina up again
07/29/2011
Contributor: Floral Floral
Quote:
Originally posted by AngelvMaynard
You should ease yourself back into sexual activity. If it has been a while, your clitoris, labia and vagina may be sensitive because the activities you are doing aren't something you've done in a while. Do what feels good and take it a little ... more
Thanks AngelvMaynard. The thing is that I don't remember having any of these issues when I was going through puberty and then becoming sexually active. Everything went VERY smoothly for me then. Do you think this sort of thing is common...I mean if anyone is going seven years without sex that is...
07/30/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
I think I experienced something similar for awhile. After a period (years) of no sexual activity, I started using toys. For months G-spot sessions would feel like this:

good sensation ... feels like I'm rubbing a bruise ... orgasm

It was really strange. The bruised feeling would last for a second or two right before orgasm. Eventually that stopped happening. I never experience that bruised feeling anymore.

Just re-read your initial post. You feel bruised afterwards. Hmmm... I'm guessing that will go away with time.
07/30/2011
Contributor: wetone123 wetone123
I too went years without sexual activity and at first it felt that way. Just like with exercise, you must gradually get back into it. I think when our bodies are younger the adjustment is not so noticable. It has not taken me long to get back in the groove, just a matter of months, so be patient.
07/30/2011