I'm really struggling to make a decision between the Johnny VixSkin or the Johnny Realistic. They are both the same dimensions, however one is more plush while the other has a more traditional silicone feel. Are there any major deciding differences between the two? Does the plush make the girth feel more or less overwhelming? Can one be cleaned more easily? Will one be more durable thus longer lasting? This toy is quite an investment so I would really appreciate any input, thanks!