Need a recommendation

Need a recommendation

Kate Qu Kate Qu
My female partner and I are planning to start experimenting with a strap-on. Neither of us have ever used dildoes before. I am a petit Asian woman and am looking for a strap on that looks and preferably natural (none of that glowing neon purple stuff), is reasonably small and easy for my partner to control the movements. I tried to look on the net but there are just too many choices with no indication on size and texture. Any recommendation?
07/30/2009
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Quote:
Originally posted by Kate Qu
My female partner and I are planning to start experimenting with a strap-on. Neither of us have ever used dildoes before. I am a petit Asian woman and am looking for a strap on that looks and preferably natural (none of that glowing neon purple ...
Hi Kate,

I suggest that you buy the set separately so you can choose a smaller dildo to start with. If you measure your hips, our sizing will help you find a harness that is best for you. The same goes for the dildo - if you know about how big you'd like it, the properties tab lists all the measurements - from length, insertable length , diameter and so on. In any category of products, the filters for searching on the left side of the screen make it really easy to narrow down your choices.
07/30/2009
deceased deceased
Try an Aslan Jaguar and something like Tantus Acute. Or Curve. About 5 inches insertable, not too thick, firm but not hard, and a G spotter. Jaguars adjust well, don't slip, last forever, and keep getting more comfortable.
08/03/2009
Epiphora Epiphora
Quote:
Originally posted by deceased
Try an Aslan Jaguar and something like Tantus Acute. Or Curve. About 5 inches insertable, not too thick, firm but not hard, and a G spotter. Jaguars adjust well, don't slip, last forever, and keep getting more comfortable.
Kate asked for natural-colored dildos, though, and both the Acute and the Curve come in only funky colors. I agree on the Jaguar though.
08/03/2009
Epiphora Epiphora
I am far from an expert on harnesses, but after trying one pretty shitty one (this one link ), I now believe that a harness should be an investment. Don't go for the cheap stuff just because it's cheap. The Commando link is the top-rated double strap harness currently on EF, and it looks pretty good. For comfort, the Spareparts Joque is supposedly amazing link -- once you adjust the waist, you never have to adjust it again. Next time you just pull it up like underwear.

As for dildos, I'm not sure how small you're thinking. But I found 3 potential dildos for you:
link Mistress. 1 1/4" in diameter and comes in flesh.
link Slim Jim. 1 1/4" in diameter and comes in beige.
link Throb. 1 1/4" in diameter and comes in black, looks semi-realistic except for the fact that it's black.

If you need something smaller, I don't know if you'll be able to find flesh tones.

I hope that is helpful. Good luck!
08/03/2009
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