We have the PureWand - but not the Serenity - so we're a little biased. I voted that you should buy the PureWand because I think the weight and curve will prove to be a different experience.

But I can see where there are so many other interesting things out there to try - you may opt to go down a different road. We have a number of toys that are similar - but different enough to add variety - so if you can afford the PureWand and Serenity - go for it - the PureWand is my wife's #1 toy - out of 25 or so in our current collection and more than 100 we've tried over the years. That's pretty high praise! less

I also have the Serenity and have been drooling over the Pure Wand for a while. I really like the Serenity but I think that the curve of the Pure Wand is more pronounced and will provide a better/different sensation for my g-spot. I am still deciding as well. I am leaning toward ordering it soonish. less

I'm not sure it will. I have both. Serenity is a little big for me, but Icicles #17 is similarly shaped and not too big. There's nothing the Pure Wand offers that icicles #17 doesn't have except extra weight plus it can become hotter than Serenity.

Icicles #17 is fantastic.

Plus, the C shape of the Pure Wand makes it more awkward to use. Using Serenity and #17 is far more natural. less

I'm not sure it will. I have both. Serenity is a little big for me, but Icicles #17 is similarly shaped and not too big. There's nothing the Pure Wand offers that icicles #17 doesn't have except extra weight plus it can become hotter than Serenity.

Icicles #17 is fantastic.

Plus, the C shape of the Pure Wand makes it more awkward to use. Using Serenity and #17 is far more natural. less

Tuesday, I can't wait to read your review of the Icicles #17. I have it, too, and find that I have a bit of a difficult time maneuvering it once its inserted, due to the diameter of the head. Thrusting it has proven to be completely out of the question.

Do you just do the windshield washer movement with yours? I need tips on how to best use it, please!!! less

I do thrust it. Its absolutely incredible. I love it. Its too big for you? If so, don't try the Pure Wand, which is only a sliver smaller and is far more awkward to thrust or use in any way.

Your experience is interesting. The two people who have reviewed #17 already both gave it five stars. I plan to do the same.

Maybe a G-wonder would be a better fit for you. less

Hmmm . . . I do have the Pure Wand, but I don't thrust with it. I just rock it and do the windshield washer-type move. I prefer the small end because I get better sensation from it, plus it's much easier to maneuver and get more motion going with the small end inserted.

So you get the best use of the Icicles #17 by thrusting, not by using it like the Pure Wand? I'll have to try it again, perhaps in a different position? I'm baffled.

I have used toys with 1.5 inch diameter (up to 1 3/4" diameter if they are made of soft materials). However, the toys that I am best able to use for thrusting have a shaft that is not much different in size from the head, so that my vaginal opening remains "open." With this toy's pronounced head and narrow shaft, my vaginal opening closes around it once inserted -- latching onto to it, so to speak. When I try to thrust, the head catches on my pubic bone too much -- and I also don't like the sensations of going too deep since the head is not tapered and I hate bumping my cervix. Between my cervix and pubic bone, I can't seem to get much motion going at all and wondered whether you were supposed to be able to. Hence I was wondering whether I was trying to use it the "wrong" way. less

We have the PureWand - but not the Serenity - so we're a little biased. I voted that you should buy the PureWand because I think the weight and curve will prove to be a different experience.

But I can see where there are so many other interesting things out there to try - you may opt to go down a different road. We have a number of toys that are similar - but different enough to add variety - so if you can afford the PureWand and Serenity - go for it - the PureWand is my wife's #1 toy - out of 25 or so in our current collection and more than 100 we've tried over the years. That's pretty high praise! less

I already own the Reflections Serenity glass dildo, which is shaped a lot like the Pure Wand. I've been eying the Pure Wand for a while now, but I've fallen in love with the Serenity. It gets me off wonderfully, almost every time.
So my question is, would the step up to the Pure Wand be worth the hundred dollars? less

I already own the Reflections Serenity glass dildo, which is shaped a lot like the Pure Wand. I've been eying the Pure Wand for a while now, but I've fallen in love with the Serenity. It gets me off wonderfully, almost every time.
So my question is, would the step up to the Pure Wand be worth the hundred dollars? less