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Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
I've been really interested in using a strap-on for a while.

I have used dildos before, and have decided that I'd really like something with a steep curve, hard enough to target the g-spot but soft enough to be very forgiving for beginners.

I also prefer something semi-realistic that is really visually appealing.

Does anyone have any suggestions for toys? Or general tips for first-time female-female strap on users?
Which of the following do you think best suits my purposes?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Vixen Creation's Mistress
Rawhide , BeepBop
2
Tantus Curve
jroho , panthercat23 , ghalik , sweetpea12 , potstickers , theavocadopit , jmex83 , Clubbinseals , sleepyjeanne , treefrog88 , Pi , AWL , 3d3n1 , LavenderSkies , Gimme More , fufucat , Double Analysis , reinkaos , Sauceboss , mpfm , Falsepast , Highmaintenancegirl916 , CoffeeCup , ginainohio , BlooJay , Girly Juice , Stagger13 , brevado , nosrslylol , Stinkytofu10 , Dr. Curious , bog , Cat E. , unoriginalgirlyid , animepanda89 , Neurogasm
36
Sedeux Skyn
Vibrating champlette
panthercat23 , ghalik , MamaDivine , SkinFlute
4
Feeldoe
MistressDandelion , OneCurlyFry , Arch600 , brevado , amazon
5
Nexus Jr.
Total votes: 47 (44 voters)
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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04/21/2012
Contributor: catsin catsin
Quote:
Originally posted by BeepBop
I've been really interested in using a strap-on for a while.

I have used dildos before, and have decided that I'd really like something with a steep curve, hard enough to target the g-spot but soft enough to be very forgiving for ... more
Tex! All the way It seems that has been out of stock for a little while tho, so I'll just say Vixen (who made Tex).

The Vixen line seems to be spot on for realistic with a forgiveness factor!
04/22/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
I'll be stalking this post because I'm interested in hearing recommendations, too.
04/22/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
I looked up your recommendation!

That seems perfect in terms of texture, shape, and flexibility! However, I'm still undecided as to whether I want something realistically colored or not. I would like it on me, but not used on me. So I'm looking for something that comes in other colors, at least for my very first one.

I'll definitely keep an eye on Tex to see if it comes back in stock, though! Thanks so much for the feedback.
04/22/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
VixSkin or O2 are really nice. Since you want G-spot stim look for a curve or a pronounced head. Doubles are nice, but you should still get a harness with the ones you marked (though there are reports of more successful harness free F/F vaginal Feeldoe experiences then there are sucessful strapless anal Feeldoe experiences).

If it isn't too big the Fun Factory Tiger or Share XL are very stimulating - the head ridge really stimulates the G spot and the ridges help too.
04/22/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
If you're not tied to realistic, I'd recommend Bandito.
04/22/2012
Contributor: sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by BeepBop
I've been really interested in using a strap-on for a while.

I have used dildos before, and have decided that I'd really like something with a steep curve, hard enough to target the g-spot but soft enough to be very forgiving for ... more
I also have been really interested in using a strap on and am so glad you asked this question! Good luck in your endeavors.
04/22/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
I love my Tantus Acute. For strap on sex, it's far and away my favorite. Slim, soft and forgiving but firm enough for good pressure, great curve and angle. The angle works great in a harness It's only very vaguely realistic and not realistically colored, but I really hate realistic dildos. I highly recommend it. I also think you should definitely look for a nice harness. Don't get a cheap crappy one. It's well worth it to invest in a nice one. Cheap, crap ones are uncomfortable, not well made and don't position the dildo well. A good quality harness will last a long time and will put the dildo in a really good position, both for the wearer and the receiver. I love strap on sex, giving and receiving. It's one of my favorite pastimes. My next big purchase will be a Aslan Leather Jaguar harness. I have a decent leather one but it's not as nice as the Jaguar.
04/23/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Commando is also nice, and I've heard nothing but good about the SpareParts harnesses.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Clubbinseals Clubbinseals
tantus curve
04/26/2012
Contributor: 3d3n1 3d3n1
O2 Adam!

The core is firm, so the toy is not floppy at all, and maintains its upward curve well. That said, the shaft is still flexible, so it provides some forgiveness. The head is pronounced in size without a ridge that can catch, and it's squishy compared to the inner core of the shaft (again, providing some forgiveness).

I prefer Vixskin over O2, but the added inner firmness of O2, IMO, makes for a better toy for strap on play.

My experience with regular Tantus silicone (Purr and moreso the Feeldoe) is that it's really firm without alot of give. So while the Curve has the steep curve you're after, I expect it is like other non-O2 toys in that it's firm and relatively inflexible.
04/28/2012
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by 3d3n1
O2 Adam!

The core is firm, so the toy is not floppy at all, and maintains its upward curve well. That said, the shaft is still flexible, so it provides some forgiveness. The head is pronounced in size without a ridge that can catch, and ... more
The Feeldoe is substantially stiffer than most other Tantus toys. The Curve is soft, and the angle is nice. I'd say it would be better for harness use than the Acute.
05/12/2012
Contributor: 3d3n1 3d3n1
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
The Feeldoe is substantially stiffer than most other Tantus toys. The Curve is soft, and the angle is nice. I'd say it would be better for harness use than the Acute.
Yeah, the Feeldoe was noticeably harder than the Purr... but even the Purr is fairly firm compared to O2 Adam. Haven't tried the Curve though.
05/13/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by BeepBop
I've been really interested in using a strap-on for a while.

I have used dildos before, and have decided that I'd really like something with a steep curve, hard enough to target the g-spot but soft enough to be very forgiving for ... more
Tantus curve looks nice
05/15/2012
Contributor: Gimme More Gimme More
curve
05/15/2012
Contributor: OneCurlyFry OneCurlyFry
I like the feeldoe. not the realdoe, though
05/18/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
Quote:
Originally posted by OneCurlyFry
I like the feeldoe. not the realdoe, though
Why not the realdoe? Is it made a little differently?
05/18/2012
Contributor: fufucat fufucat
tantus is nice
05/19/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
The curve is awesome. It's hard to go wrong with Tantus.
05/20/2012
Contributor: Sauceboss Sauceboss
tantus curve
05/20/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
Okay. So pretty much everyone is in agreement that the Tantus Curve is the best option.

Does anyone know how much drag it has?
05/20/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Quote:
Originally posted by BeepBop
Okay. So pretty much everyone is in agreement that the Tantus Curve is the best option.

Does anyone know how much drag it has?
A bit, not a whole lot. It's one of Tantus' smoother dildoes but you may still need lube.
05/21/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
lots of lube and take it slow!
05/21/2012
Contributor: ghalik ghalik
Quote:
Originally posted by ghalik
A bit, not a whole lot. It's one of Tantus' smoother dildoes but you may still need lube.
Gahhh, dildos*
05/21/2012
Contributor: CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I have the Tantus Acute and like it very much. I've only used it for female-male strap on sex, but my feeling is it would work great for female-female.
05/21/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
make it its a soft base but sturdy i am a lesbian and when me and my partner decided to take the plunge it had to be something we both felt comfortable with
05/28/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Tantus makes awesome toys!
05/28/2012
Contributor: Arch600 Arch600
We're big fans of the Feeldoe. Our experience being only F to M, however. Indeed it is on the harder/stiffer side but that hasn't caused any problems for us. I think we were both amazed at how much sensation is transferred through the toy. Each of us can feel everything the other is doing, up to and including our orgasms. Feeling her twitch inside of me as she comes is one of the most amazing things I've ever experienced!
05/28/2012
Contributor: BeepBop BeepBop
Quote:
Originally posted by Arch600
We're big fans of the Feeldoe. Our experience being only F to M, however. Indeed it is on the harder/stiffer side but that hasn't caused any problems for us. I think we were both amazed at how much sensation is transferred through the toy. ... more
That sounds awesome! I'm really tempted to get the Feeldoe as my first strap-on toy, but I am worried about the stiffness. So tempted to take the plunge and get that one though, especially after what you just said. haha.
05/29/2012