The bigger the better?

The bigger the better?

Lena Eden Lena Eden
A couple of days ago my boyfriend told me that he’d like to try a new dildo on me and he wants it to be a fairly large one.

Despite the fact that he himself is rather well endowed, I think that he’s secretly turned on by the idea of adding a bigger pal in our bedroom.

So, my question is: what was the biggest dildo you have ever tried?

* Was it a realistic one, or one with the nubs/other bonuses?

* How often did you use it and are you still doing it?

* Any tips for how to use a dildo if that’s larger than an average one?
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MissMandii MissMandii
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A couple of days ago my boyfriend told me that he’d like to try a new dildo on me and he wants it to be a fairly large one. Despite the fact that he himself is rather well endowed, I think that he’s secretly turned on by the idea of adding a bigger ...
My first larger dildo was one of the Doc Johnson realistic dongs. We used it a lot for a time, but eventually it broke lol! I definitely suggest a "fleshy" one, as the harder the material (like glass or metal) the less "give" it has. Something that's a hard material is always going to feel more true to size IMHO. Suggestions, warm up, start with smaller toys, and be comfortable before you use a bigger toy. Oh! And don't be embarrassed to use lube... And lots of it! I actually used it a lot to practice oral on, helped with my gag reflex a lot!
Feb 2, 2:26 pm
MissMandii MissMandii
One thing I forgot to note. Idk if this is just me, or the same for others... I lived the feeling if being full and stretched... But when it came to orgasm, I prefer using smaller toys. I will DEFINITELY get off just fine with large toys, but for me, its like the sensation is muted. I don't have much room to "contract" or squeeze during an orgasm with a large toy in... So for me it kind of kills some of the orgasm.
Feb 2, 2:28 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A couple of days ago my boyfriend told me that he’d like to try a new dildo on me and he wants it to be a fairly large one. Despite the fact that he himself is rather well endowed, I think that he’s secretly turned on by the idea of adding a bigger ...
I think males, at least this one gets the idea from watching XXX movies.
After watching fairly large penetrations and the reactions of the gals, want to try it on their gals. Either to see their reactions or if she is as "mighty" as the female performers.

Speaking for OW, her fav was one the realistic Doc Johnson's. 2" wide 6 1/4 " cir, 7" long. Lasted a few yrs until it broke from over use. This was the first one to make her squirt. Got a replacement but she seldom uses it now.

She also really enjoyed the original Tera Patrick Cherry Dong vibe (you can look up it's dimensions.) I didn't like the cherry smell and also was jealous of it and discarded it after a 4-5 months.

And right now she says the Vixen Creations Bandit is a Winner !

With any dildo she has me perform oral first until ready for it. If used in the shower she doesn't use lube.

I noticed this thread is not gender specific. Since I enjoy prostate massage and p _ _ _ in_, I may share mine later
Feb 2, 3:17 pm
RonLee RonLee
I've used the Tantus Cowboy (BTW I did purchase it from Eden Fantasys)... even though I've been using it for several years now, I have not yet mastered its final section. However, the SquarePeg Slink in MDL (medium-long size) I have been able to get up my butt all the way... all the way that it is supposed to go anyway. Eden Fantasys does not sell it but google it anyway and you'll see how big it is. Wifey sometimes pegs me with that one and when she has I've had hands free, eyes rolled back, spectacular orgasms.
Feb 2, 8:19 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by MissMandii
One thing I forgot to note. Idk if this is just me, or the same for others... I lived the feeling if being full and stretched... But when it came to orgasm, I prefer using smaller toys. I will DEFINITELY get off just fine with large toys, but for me, ...
Thanks for the suggestion. I think I understand what you're talking about
Feb 3, 8:43 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
OH&W, Lovebears, I also think it's more about visual pleasure, rather than a real deal for men. At first..

Tera Patrick Cherry Dong vibe is 12 inches!
I'm eager to know what's your favorite big dildo for prostate massage??

RonLee, wow! that's rather huge.

So, as I see everyone here prefers the smooth/realistic surface. How about the glass dildos with nubs/ ridges?
Feb 3, 9:56 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
OH&W, Lovebears, I also think it's more about visual pleasure, rather than a real deal for men. At first..

Tera Patrick Cherry Dong vibe is 12 inches!
I'm eager to know what's your favorite big dildo for prostate ...
Lena, my dear adm. Why do you ask which is my fav big dildo for prostate massage ?

Is the bf now interested ?

Or are you planning a role reversal weekend

Anyway, it's not just size but the shape also. If you are nice I'll post some pics on avatar. Or you can look at the harness reviews we already done. So many favs, use more than one per session. Having a few harnesses is a luxury.

Yep, TPCD was not only long and wide, but had very large long head. What she liked about it was could leave it in while she slept. That is, after I gave her many orgasms with it. With it's acute curve and length, big balls for a base could be propped just right. Now you know why I had to dump it.
Feb 3, 7:31 pm
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I think males, at least this one gets the idea from watching XXX movies.
After watching fairly large penetrations and the reactions of the gals, want to try it on their gals. Either to see their reactions or if she is as "mighty" as ...
Missed that one. I go for thick, and decently long, but the thicker the better. I was using The Rowdy ....6" circ. but it broke (probably the same reason) now I am using one that is about 5 1/2 circ. Guess I need a thicker one.
Feb 3, 10:54 pm
jen1447 jen1447
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A couple of days ago my boyfriend told me that he’d like to try a new dildo on me and he wants it to be a fairly large one. Despite the fact that he himself is rather well endowed, I think that he’s secretly turned on by the idea of adding a bigger ...
I've had the Tantus Hoss inside me a good part of the way and inside a few of my GFs. And even a good part of the way in my BF's ass.

It's not exactly a common event just bc 11" is pretty effing big, even for size queens. I moreso roll in the 7-8" range w strapons on the regular (which is still pretty damn big in the big picture). But yeah sometimes you just have to put on a spectacle.

Best way of making it happen is like w everything else - arousal-arousal-arousa l. Take lots of time, seduce your woman all day long ahead of time, and when the time comes, slowly work your way up to it. That could involve using progressively larger dildos in sequence or just going about it very slowly and methodically with your huge one, whatever fits your bill. But when you get a woman's pussy working and committed to you, she can do almost anything.
Feb 5, 1:16 am
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
I've had the Tantus Hoss inside me a good part of the way and inside a few of my GFs. And even a good part of the way in my BF's ass.

It's not exactly a common event just bc 11" is pretty effing big, even for size queens. I ...
Damn!
You Go, Girl!
By the way, Jen1447, do you use the Tantus Hoss with a harness? If so please share what sort. I'd love for Wifey to be able to strap up with our Tantus Cowboy and peg an orgasm or two out of me.
Feb 5, 3:57 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A couple of days ago my boyfriend told me that he’d like to try a new dildo on me and he wants it to be a fairly large one. Despite the fact that he himself is rather well endowed, I think that he’s secretly turned on by the idea of adding a bigger ...
LE,

SuperBowl just passed and although I've no actual research to back it up, I think many many many couples have great sex that night.

I know we did as we do every Super Bowl.

So, since you mentioned he wanted to use a fairly large one on you, did it happen ? Or are you still waiting for it to arrive ? Since he is already rather well endowed I'm betting he wants something substantially larger.

Vixen Creation Lone Star looks nice
Tantus Hoss ? (might be too big)
Feb 6, 6:25 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
I've had the Tantus Hoss inside me a good part of the way and inside a few of my GFs. And even a good part of the way in my BF's ass.

It's not exactly a common event just bc 11" is pretty effing big, even for size queens. I ...
Agree with you 110 %. Sounds like you really know your stuff


Hoss ? What a name for a dildo It is big though, no make that huge
Feb 6, 6:33 pm
jen1447 jen1447
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Damn!
You Go, Girl!
By the way, Jen1447, do you use the Tantus Hoss with a harness? If so please share what sort. I'd love for Wifey to be able to strap up with our Tantus Cowboy and peg an orgasm or two out of me.
Yes and no. I use it with the Terra Firma harness and its biggest ring because it's too big to fit in the Joque (shame that), but unfortunately I don't consider any harness use besides the Joque 'real' fucking anymore, just because Joque is that much of a game-changer. So it ends up being kind of an exercise in spectacle. I can get behind him/her and own them but it's just not the same delivery with all the force and drive and power I usually have. Too much is lost between the pelvis and the dick, and when you've got a dick as big as the Hoss out front, it makes it really hard to control and you just end up putting it in but not really thrusting like I'm used to.
Feb 6, 6:40 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by jen1447
Yes and no. I use it with the Terra Firma harness and its biggest ring because it's too big to fit in the Joque (shame that), but unfortunately I don't consider any harness use besides the Joque 'real' fucking anymore, just because ...
For our larger dicks dildos we use the Leather Rider Luxe sold here on Eden. We like to support EF

This is very sturdy and should last a very long time. Longer than some of our dildos (opps "dicks")

For larger u know what's we insert it right thu the hole. There's illustration pics on our review. link

And PassionQT did a review also and shows how the harness actually looks on a wearer.
Feb 7, 6:16 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Well - I'm guilty as charged. I'm the typical male - if some is good, more is better. My wife use to be quite happy with a 1.25" to 1.5" dildo or vibrator - but in stages I worked her (and me - that's another story) up to about 2.3" diameter dildos.

When you get to that size - hard silicone is just - well, too hard. We started with Vixskin dual-density dildos like Johnny - but motivated by my fixation on size, we graduated to the Maverick and Outlaw. It should be said that even though we have a dozen or so dildos of all sizes - the Maverick is still her absolute favorite.

Craving a bit more I tried several Bad Dragon dildos - but their combinations of length, girth and textures never really worked out for us.

Always looking for something new - I started buying Vamp Silicone products. The have firm and soft options. We have a firm Giorgio - and because it isn't huge it works out nicely...

But - I wanted more. We now have both Gretta - with a huge head (2.3") and Carina with a nice head and long shaft (9"). After 2 or 3 orgasms with smaller toys - my Queen demands to filled completely - and I'm only too happy to oblige!

Not to be outdone - she pegs me with any dildo she wants - and I've enjoyed them all! Oh my what a butt-slut I am!!

Size is fun - I just wonder if we can go any bigger!?

I just got a new 2" glass butt plug - Just for fun of course!
Feb 7, 8:41 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
LE,

SuperBowl just passed and although I've no actual research to back it up, I think many many many couples have great sex that night.

I know we did as we do every Super Bowl.

So, since you mentioned he wanted to use a ...
We're still thinking on what dildo to choose.

Tantus Hoss? Yeah, probably that's too big for us now
Feb 8, 7:37 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Well - I'm guilty as charged. I'm the typical male - if some is good, more is better. My wife use to be quite happy with a 1.25" to 1.5" dildo or vibrator - but in stages I worked her (and me - that's another story) up to about ...
Wow, finally a glass plug? I'm a big fan of glass toys, but I feel that glass may be too rigid and suit advanced users, rather than beginners.
Feb 8, 8:31 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Wow, finally a glass plug? I'm a big fan of glass toys, but I feel that glass may be too rigid and suit advanced users, rather than beginners.
Variety is important. I just got the new Lovence vibrating vibes - although I'm not into controlling them with my phone - they are great body safe silicone rechargeable butt vibes. I got the 1.5" for my wife and the 1.75" for me. Although we use plenty of lube - the silicone has a drag to it that can make extraction difficult if you've had it in for a long time.

My wife loves her Tantus B-Bomb - the vibe that came with it sucked but a WeVibe Tango works great. The B-Bomb has a smooth silicone finish so it comes out much easier. This how we prepare her for anal intercourse.

As for me and my penchant for things large - I previously purchased a non-vibrating silicone plug that is 2" in diameter - I really liked the stretch - but it hurt a bit when taking it out - hence my search for glass. I have several glass plugs in the 1.5" - 1.75" range and was ready to try the next step.

The reason I prefer glass over steel is that I count on the larger neck on glass plugs to help get me loosened up for pegging - my wife is quite proud of her big dick!

The 2" glass does indeed take lots of lube - and patience, some of the rigid nature of the plug is mitigated by the extraordinary smoothness of glass combined with a good lube - we use coconut oil for everything!

The neck of the 2" plug is 1" - whereas on the silicone 2" is just a 1/2". Stretching 1.5" to extract the draggy silicone vs. stretching 1" for the smooth glass makes all the difference.

Don't get me wrong - 2" of hard glass is a lot for me - but my wife always takes great care when removing it.
Feb 8, 6:02 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
We're still thinking on what dildo to choose.

Tantus Hoss? Yeah, probably that's too big for us now
Can't go wrong with Vixen Creations Dils. "Worth every penny". Now if either of you are into non realistic ones check out Bad Dragon. Many variations and sizes. And some animal/exotic themed ones

Also have themed sheaths if he wants to ......
Those will make him bigger too
Feb 8, 7:06 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Can't go wrong with Vixen Creations Dils. "Worth every penny". Now if either of you are into non realistic ones check out Bad Dragon. Many variations and sizes. And some animal/exotic themed ones

Also have themed sheaths if he ...
IMO the Vamp Silicone options are better - they come is soft and firm - and a wide range of designs.
Feb 8, 10:46 pm
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
IMO the Vamp Silicone options are better - they come is soft and firm - and a wide range of designs.
We've got a Vamp Gianni (9” x 2”) in Vamp's "Soft Skin" that I really like. When Wifey was just too tired to use the Harness and peg me, she discovered that she could put a finger into the reservoir in the bottom fo the Gianni, for vibrating bullet. Doing that she could get right to my prostate and give me a REALLY eye rolling orgasm that seemed to just last forever!
Feb 9, 5:42 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
IMO the Vamp Silicone options are better - they come is soft and firm - and a wide range of designs.
Checked them out. Yes, for realistic with nice color schemes and softness.Looks very good. Priced lower than VC too. And angled for harnesses. However if LE decides to get a new dil I would think she gets a good discount here. She may have to choose from EF. I do remember a soft large dil non VC on EF before.
Feb 9, 3:05 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Checked them out. Yes, for realistic with nice color schemes and softness.Looks very good. Priced lower than VC too. And angled for harnesses. However if LE decides to get a new dil I would think she gets a good discount here. She may have to ...
Yeah, EF dildos is a priority for me.

Now we're thinking about Mega Silicone Realistic Dildo. Has anyone tried it?
Feb 10, 8:21 am
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Yeah, EF dildos is a priority for me.

Now we're thinking about Mega Silicone Realistic Dildo. Has anyone tried it?
The specs look fine...
Length: 9 1/2"
Insertable length: 7"
Circumference: 6"
Diameter: 1 7/8"
Harness compatibility: O-ring compatible

I, however, remain just a little bit creeped out by "realistic" it's the image of a dismembered body part that I don't enjoy. My preference would be for the choice of at least a non-realistic color. It's not that I'm repelled by the thought of a real cock... hell I'm a versatile bi guy!
Feb 10, 9:05 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Yeah, EF dildos is a priority for me.

Now we're thinking about Mega Silicone Realistic Dildo. Has anyone tried it?
Yes, both OW and I have. She rides it on our shower seat. And of course and in bed. And she uses it on me. It fits in the Ruby Rider Leather harness.
btw, We've done reviews on both.
Feb 10, 2:17 pm
Charles69 Charles69
Quote:
Originally posted by MissMandii
One thing I forgot to note. Idk if this is just me, or the same for others... I lived the feeling if being full and stretched... But when it came to orgasm, I prefer using smaller toys. I will DEFINITELY get off just fine with large toys, but for me, ...
LOVE YOU SWEETNESS
Feb 16, 2:41 am
mikeysPlace mikeysPlace
Gotta agree with the previous posts - we men love the visuals of a woman using a really large dildo.

I actually tried one of the slip on male enhancers. Actually, I think it was an attachment for a sybian. It looks like a dildo, but is hollow inside so you can actually wear it on the end of your penis. I don't know what the size is, but it's really fat.

Needless to say, it would not go in her! I couldn't even fit in the tip. It just wouldn't go! LOL, so we gave up.
Feb 17, 10:39 am
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Gotta ask once one goes bigger, does it have to keep getting bigger and bigger
Feb 24, 1:58 am
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Gotta ask once one goes bigger, does it have to keep getting bigger and bigger
Yes and no...
If that's what you want, then going big makes going bigger easier. However, some of my smaller toys are still quite fun to use, not the tiniest beginner toys of course.
Feb 24, 8:19 am
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