So without any discussion with my wife, I just ordered the Vixen Colossus on an impulse. Thought about how much fun it would be surprising her with this when she's blindfolded and strapped in to the under the bed restraints. Now I'm really thinking thru that I just purchased a HUGE dildo that I'm going to be wearing!? I know it's tough to say without knowing her, but am I making an equally HUGE mistake by surprising her with this? I'm imagining her stopping the whole event, leaving me standing there with my erect unit stuck in a giant textured dildo, and her later laughing about it over drinks with her friends :o So what do you think? At a minimum I know I'm not pulling this thing out unless she's had a few drinks and is pelvis-straining-up-so - I-will-touch-her sort of turned on. Thanks.