Would you rather have an extra firm or an extra soft dildo?

Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
in my experience I prefer soft....I wish I could say exactly WHY, but they just feel better to me! I'm not a huge g-spot gal, and soft is great to thrust with and feels decently realistic.
02/06/2013
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I use a lot of glass toys. Sometimes I want my Vixskin toys though.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
On the firm side with stiffness like the Mustang or Maverick. Glass is enjoyable too for me but I like the VixSkin because its forgiving texture wise.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Rawr4483 Rawr4483
The harder the better.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Soft. I like not having to worry about being careful and being able to buck without hurting myself (bucking sometimes happens automatically with me, so hard toys can be a gamble). VixSkin's the best since you get super-softness and flexibility with enough firmness in the core for effective manipulation. I do have one or two toys that I'd call "rock hard," and while they're nice they're not an everyday thing.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
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Originally posted by EnChAnTiNg
I prefer glass dildos. The combination of the hardness and the weight makes them incomparable to any other dildo material I have used.
Yup, pretty much how I feel. I love the solid feel of a glass toy!
05/26/2013
Contributor: spiced spiced
I answered "soft" but I really want something in-between, something as much like an erect penis as possible, with a strong internal firmness, but also an exterior softness. I agree that Vixskin is excellent this way.
05/27/2013
Contributor: Cosmonaut Cosmonaut
I prefer harder dildos like glass. They do more for me than softer dildos.
05/27/2013
Contributor: foxinlace foxinlace
While I love love love my glass toys, after a certain point I like soft/flexible ones. Having a bit of give makes for a more realistic experience and I don't have to worry as much about hurting myself in the moment.
05/27/2013
Contributor: HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
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Originally posted by spineyogurt
And why?
I don't care for dildo's but that could be because I haven't found the right one yet.
05/27/2013
Contributor: TJax TJax
So far, my woman has prefered hard and smooth versus soft and grippy for her dildos
05/27/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
Hard dildos sometimes (like glass), but I prefer soft silicone.
05/27/2013