I'm not a toy expert, but I can recommend that a lot of us women love rabbits. I guess they may be a little intimidating for beginners, but you said you've used some toys already. It's definitely a 'for her' toy since you have some that are sort of 'for you'. I'm sure the advanced toy users will be along and help you greatly!

Thanks. Do you have any favorite rabbits? I'm hoping to get some specific recommendations since the choices are overwhelming.

This rabbit I own, I absolutely love. link

If she doesn't like anal stimulation, I would go with something with not so many buttons. If you type "rabbit" into the search bar, you can sort by price or rating. I suggest searching by rating and then seeing if you spot any toys that would stimulate your wife since you know what she does and doesn't like. All the toys have different reviews for that reason as well

I sent you a message through EF's message system because there was just too much information and was easier to help you that way.

I highly, highly, recommend the Gigi if you are looking for a vibe to explore g spot stimulation. It's made out of silicone so it's body safe and easy to clean. It's rechargeable so you don't have to worry about replacing batteries. Plus, it comes with a nice little storage bag and box. It's perfect for beginners, because it doesn't look intimidating and is very user friendly. The price tag is a little higher than some vibes, but I think it's worth it for the quality

This is my wife's favorite vibe right now. Smaller size, soft and flexible and has multiple speeds.

Could you maybe show her some toys here and get some idea of what she likes? This has worked for my wife, I just don't tell her I am buying her one and surprise her with it.

Jimmyjane Iconic Smoothie. For the price there is not a better vibe out there and the design is versatile and non-threatening.

Rabbits or a bullet vibe might be good. Gspot if she can orgasm from internal stim is good too.

I'd recommend a standard phallic vibe, so you can help with oral etc and be in on the action.

We have a lot of toys (My Man and I) and we don't even own a rabbit yet, mainly because I feel there would be "nothing for him to do" with a rabbit in the picture. This is purely our choice, though, so you may have different ideas.

We use a standard, phallic silicone vibe for use during oral or to use vaginally during DP sessions. We have a good time with these and they were the start of our toy collection. These, along with a strong clit vibe, anything from a bullet to a Wahl or the Hitachi would be good when she is alone OR with you.

A good number of the Fun Factory vibes would be a good starter.

Here's some nice starter toys, they are simple and the shapes are familiar. Also, getting a good quality toy REALLY saves on aggravation, as they work well, the materials are safe and women are less likely to have a less than pleasant experience and think, "I don't like sex toys." These are HIGH quality toys, and spending a little more is worth the satisfaction.

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I agree with the rabbits. I've tried many, and a inexpensive one link and this one is a bit pricier, but it's a true keeper.link, and the jack rabbits are always a hit!

Thank you all for your suggestions. I have some more research to do.

I think if you are looking for something in a g-spot vibe you should take a look at the JimmyJane Form 6. It's sleek and beautiful and comes in beautiful packaging for gift giving. It's also totally waterproof and has a storage case. It's the very same vibe I recommended to my own mother.

I would try one of the LELO toys, which are classy and beautiful, or I would go with a rabbit.