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Contributor: DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
So I've got two guy friends getting married, and I just got back from a bachelor party with one. Both fall into that rare category of waiting until marriage to commence with the sexual activities.

After a brief discussion with one who was clueless about lube, and the other who was afraid of vibrators, I feel like it is my duty to pick them out some good stuff.

My initial thought is to get them each a black Mystic Wand Rechargeable, and then a trial sized bottle of hypoallergenic (no parabens or glycerin) lube in the water, silicone, and oil based variety.

If you were building a honeymoon/sex kit for soon-to-be not virgins, what would you recommend?
11/06/2011
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Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I don't think having you pick out toys for them is entirely appropriate. Especially given the fact that they are so inexperienced. There is a high likelihood that you could offend them. Get them a gift card and let them discover things on their own terms.
11/06/2011
Contributor: DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
Nah, we are good friends. They know (and expect) me to get them something ornery. A gift card would leave them stranded, since they wont take the initiative.

I do plan on staying somewhat discreet (no big veiny dildos, haha), hence the wand and lubes that can double as massaging oil.

Mainly, I am curious about what people might buy their best friends for the honeymoon.
11/06/2011
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
For my friends, you don't want to know. For a friend that was inexperienced if money was no issue: Ride H2O lube (clean, body friendly, not overly noticeable beyond making things slicker), a Faith vibe (tiny, non threatening, gentle), a Njoy Fun Wand (also tiny and non-threatening, with the benefit of being an excellent G-spotter), and based on what I've read of it, "Guide to Getting It On!: Sixth Edition"

Also, if they know nothing about lubes, be careful with the oil bases, they damage condoms and your friends may not know that.
11/06/2011
Contributor: DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
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Originally posted by AndroAngel
For my friends, you don't want to know. For a friend that was inexperienced if money was no issue: Ride H2O lube (clean, body friendly, not overly noticeable beyond making things slicker), a Faith vibe (tiny, non threatening, gentle), a Njoy Fun ... more
Thanks for the advice, good recommendations.

I already gave them the lube talk. No condoms to worry about since their soon-to-be brides will be taking birth control. Also, they now know that silicone will react badly with other silicone. I was thinking massage oil anyway, not really for sex, like Sensuous Massage Oil.

Someone gave him one of those disposable trojan vibrating cock rings at the bp, and he was cracking up (and slightly confused at first) about it. So inexperienced, yes, but not prudish or easily offended.
11/06/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
A massage candle - not only mood lighting, but it makes it's own massage oil as well - just to add to your gift bag to them.
11/06/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
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At first I thought that they were getting married to each other! Lol!
I might include a small clitoral vibe, maybe a small insertable toy, a blindfold, some massage oil/a massage candle, maybe some bubble bath...
11/06/2011
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by DiscretionAdvised
Thanks for the advice, good recommendations.

I already gave them the lube talk. No condoms to worry about since their soon-to-be brides will be taking birth control. Also, they now know that silicone will react badly with other silicone. I ... more
Speaking from personal experience, if you're going to do this then I suggest Shunga in Fruit. Smells like heaven in a bottle and it feels really good on the skin. I've had my bottle for a week now and use it every day when I get out of the shower and I've had no skin irritation or anything like that.
11/06/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Bnaughty deluxe. We waited until we were married and had a horrible first year figuring things out. That toy seriously saved our marriage!
12/09/2011
Contributor: noelleish noelleish
an informative book or dvd
01/31/2012