What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
I'd like to get a dildo for my friend.She's never had one.
01/08/2011
- 1
- 2
- 3
- 4
- 5
I recommend getting something made of safe material that's easy to clean, like silicone. Fun Factory has many options that would be fun as a gift, both vibrating and not -- the Fun Factory Fly Micro, for example. Or, if you're on a budget, there are some good plastic toys, like the Waterproof Blueberry Bliss. Just read the reviews to help narrow down your options.
01/08/2011
Vibrator since they can serve the same purpose as the other two options plus some. What ToyGeek said is good advice, plus think multi-speed and non-phallic (in case your friend is creeped out by toys that look just like dicks)
01/08/2011
Talk with your friend and find out what she is comfortable with. Then definitely go for something bodysafe (silicone, glass, etc.)
01/09/2011
I would go with soemthing simple to start off with that is easy maintenance and safe. My first toy was a plastic bullet. After two years it died and I started shopping around for a more traditional vibe. I'd ask her what she thinks she might like. Maybe she has a toy that doesn't work for her and you might be able to find a more suitable one. I'd check with her.
01/17/2011
My first toy was a silver bullet and it was wonderful!
01/17/2011
Go with a very simple vibe... something midsized and not overly complicated. Don't get some huge realistic looking dong that might scare her away and make her think you're a freak. Something like a nice classy Lelo design would be great... but they are fairly pricy so I'd look for a "budget" version that looks like them. I agree as well on the silicone option... great safe starting material for a 1st vibe.
02/13/2011
The best would be to talk to your friend and see what see likes. If that not an options a vibrator that could be used for clitoral stimulation would be your safest bet. You would also want something body safe and not to intimidating.
02/13/2011
Quote:
Dildos are less intimidating, unless you think she would prefer a traditional vibrator. Either way, good luck to you.
Originally posted by
bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
02/23/2011
Quote:
My first toy was the Waterproof Raspberry Crush, so I concur with this. Good, inexpensive plastic toy - although now that I have silicone things I say go with something silicone if you can afford the bump in price. Either way, though
Originally posted by
ToyGeek
I recommend getting something made of safe material that's easy to clean, like silicone. Fun Factory has many options that would be fun as a gift, both vibrating and not -- the Fun Factory Fly Micro, for example. Or, if you're on a budget,
...
more
I recommend getting something made of safe material that's easy to clean, like silicone. Fun Factory has many options that would be fun as a gift, both vibrating and not -- the Fun Factory Fly Micro, for example. Or, if you're on a budget, there are some good plastic toys, like the Waterproof Blueberry Bliss. Just read the reviews to help narrow down your options.
less
02/23/2011
My first toy was a traditional vibe. I think it would be the best option because it can work as a dildo or a vibrator
02/23/2011
Get her a somewhat small sized, safe vibrator with no frills. Just a basic one to begin with. You could always take her with you to get one, or have her help pick one out. That's what I've always done.
02/23/2011
Quote:
You had a plastic bullet last 2 years? Mine never last more than 3 months!
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I would go with soemthing simple to start off with that is easy maintenance and safe. My first toy was a plastic bullet. After two years it died and I started shopping around for a more traditional vibe. I'd ask her what she thinks she might
...
more
I would go with soemthing simple to start off with that is easy maintenance and safe. My first toy was a plastic bullet. After two years it died and I started shopping around for a more traditional vibe. I'd ask her what she thinks she might like. Maybe she has a toy that doesn't work for her and you might be able to find a more suitable one. I'd check with her.
less
02/24/2011
Try search discussions for a good first time toy, there's lots of threads about it.
02/24/2011
I voted the vibrator, it can kinda be used as either if the right one is chosen, gives her more room for exploration.
03/09/2011
Quote:
Definetly a vibrator. And if you do not know what material they would like a vibrator can be simpler.
Originally posted by
bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
03/10/2011
i'd say vibrator. doubles as a clit stimulator. <3
03/14/2011
I bought my gf her first toy and I went with a the evolved holiday vibrator. Seemed nice and basic as a starting point to get into toys.
03/14/2011
I'd say get a vibrating dildo, that way she can figure out what she likes for toys a bit easier.
03/18/2011
Quote:
i say vibrator they are always fantastic.
Originally posted by
bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
09/18/2011
I think a vibrator is a great first time toy! She can experiment with using it internally and externally and find out exactly what she likes.
09/18/2011
Vibrators are awesome for first time users!
09/18/2011
vibrators are more fun!
09/20/2011
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 23