I'd like to get a dildo for my friend.She's never had one.

Contributor: bb63 bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
viborator
57
dildo
3
silver bullet
2
Total votes: 62 (61 voters)
Poll is closed
01/08/2011
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Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
I recommend getting something made of safe material that's easy to clean, like silicone. Fun Factory has many options that would be fun as a gift, both vibrating and not -- the Fun Factory Fly Micro, for example. Or, if you're on a budget, there are some good plastic toys, like the Waterproof Blueberry Bliss. Just read the reviews to help narrow down your options.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Vibrator since they can serve the same purpose as the other two options plus some. What ToyGeek said is good advice, plus think multi-speed and non-phallic (in case your friend is creeped out by toys that look just like dicks)
01/08/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Talk with your friend and find out what she is comfortable with. Then definitely go for something bodysafe (silicone, glass, etc.)
01/09/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I would go with soemthing simple to start off with that is easy maintenance and safe. My first toy was a plastic bullet. After two years it died and I started shopping around for a more traditional vibe. I'd ask her what she thinks she might like. Maybe she has a toy that doesn't work for her and you might be able to find a more suitable one. I'd check with her.
01/17/2011
Contributor: sweet seduction sweet seduction
My first toy was a silver bullet and it was wonderful!
01/17/2011
Contributor: Solar Ray Solar Ray
Go with a very simple vibe... something midsized and not overly complicated. Don't get some huge realistic looking dong that might scare her away and make her think you're a freak. Something like a nice classy Lelo design would be great... but they are fairly pricy so I'd look for a "budget" version that looks like them. I agree as well on the silicone option... great safe starting material for a 1st vibe.
02/13/2011
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
The best would be to talk to your friend and see what see likes. If that not an options a vibrator that could be used for clitoral stimulation would be your safest bet. You would also want something body safe and not to intimidating.
02/13/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
Dildos are less intimidating, unless you think she would prefer a traditional vibrator. Either way, good luck to you.
02/23/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGeek
I recommend getting something made of safe material that's easy to clean, like silicone. Fun Factory has many options that would be fun as a gift, both vibrating and not -- the Fun Factory Fly Micro, for example. Or, if you're on a budget, ... more
My first toy was the Waterproof Raspberry Crush, so I concur with this. Good, inexpensive plastic toy - although now that I have silicone things I say go with something silicone if you can afford the bump in price. Either way, though
02/23/2011
Contributor: girl next door girl next door
My first toy was a traditional vibe. I think it would be the best option because it can work as a dildo or a vibrator
02/23/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
Get her a somewhat small sized, safe vibrator with no frills. Just a basic one to begin with. You could always take her with you to get one, or have her help pick one out. That's what I've always done.
02/23/2011
Contributor: Eden C. Eden C.
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I would go with soemthing simple to start off with that is easy maintenance and safe. My first toy was a plastic bullet. After two years it died and I started shopping around for a more traditional vibe. I'd ask her what she thinks she might ... more
You had a plastic bullet last 2 years? Mine never last more than 3 months!
02/24/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Try search discussions for a good first time toy, there's lots of threads about it.
02/24/2011
Contributor: al16 al16
I voted the vibrator, it can kinda be used as either if the right one is chosen, gives her more room for exploration.
03/09/2011
Contributor: ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
Definetly a vibrator. And if you do not know what material they would like a vibrator can be simpler.
03/10/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
i'd say vibrator. doubles as a clit stimulator. <3
03/14/2011
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I bought my gf her first toy and I went with a the evolved holiday vibrator. Seemed nice and basic as a starting point to get into toys.
03/14/2011
Contributor: soyandapplecrisp soyandapplecrisp
I'd say get a vibrating dildo, that way she can figure out what she likes for toys a bit easier.
03/18/2011
Contributor: LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
Quote:
Originally posted by bb63
What kind of dildo would be best for a first timer? I'd like to get one for my friend.
i say vibrator they are always fantastic.
09/18/2011
Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I think a vibrator is a great first time toy! She can experiment with using it internally and externally and find out exactly what she likes.
09/18/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Vibrators are awesome for first time users!
09/18/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
vibrators are more fun!
09/20/2011