Do women think men prefer them to just being naked

Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
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I love it when my wife wears sexy lingerie, but alot of times, I prefer her to just be naked. She is so beautiful and needs nothing to express that.
01/17/2011
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Contributor: Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
It depends on the man. Some I've met seem to like naked best, others like the little extra tease that lingerie offers.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
Naked is the present, while lingerie is the wrapping. Somehow, ripping off all that paper is so much fun.
01/17/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Yoda
Naked is the present, while lingerie is the wrapping. Somehow, ripping off all that paper is so much fun.
Got that right! Plus when the wife wears something sexy, I know she really wants it.
01/17/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Yoda
Naked is the present, while lingerie is the wrapping. Somehow, ripping off all that paper is so much fun.
That's how my husband feels too, lol
01/17/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My guy appreciates when I keep something on bcs I'm naked all the time. So putting on a sexy bra all day with him knowing what it looks like sort of primes him for the night and he likes that I keep it on.
01/17/2011
Contributor: danellejohns danellejohns
I personally think that it is the first clue that I want something to happen that night. Plus I believe alot of the reason I wear something is so that I feel sexy (so its more of a mind thing). In the the end ,so whether it be instant access or it takes a bit more time, we all end up naked
01/18/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I would love to dress up for my boyfriend, be it lingerie or costumes or what have you. But he says he doesn't care what is on my body, so it would be all for me, and just give him the frustration of having to undress me when the time comes. We both fumble with clothing a bit but I still think it could be fun!
01/20/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I find most men respond to a pair of black knee-high high-heeled boots.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Chilipepper
I find most men respond to a pair of black knee-high high-heeled boots.
I don't know many men that don't respond to that, black knee high heeled boots are sexy as hell!
01/20/2011
Contributor: PussyGalore PussyGalore
Tonight, he will have me in the black crotchless boyshorts I purchased from Eden and my black fishnet tank. He prefers I wear sheer or see-through items or go naked. I'm cool with whatever makes him horny.
01/20/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
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Originally posted by Yoda
Naked is the present, while lingerie is the wrapping. Somehow, ripping off all that paper is so much fun.
This.
01/20/2011
Contributor: markeagleone markeagleone
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Originally posted by markeagleone
I love it when my wife wears sexy lingerie, but alot of times, I prefer her to just be naked. She is so beautiful and needs nothing to express that.
thank you all for the thoughts
01/24/2011
Contributor: DancerLove DancerLove
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Originally posted by markeagleone
I love it when my wife wears sexy lingerie, but alot of times, I prefer her to just be naked. She is so beautiful and needs nothing to express that.
Well, my husband doesn't really care. He usually likes me just naked and doesn't see what the point to lingerie is. I think lingerie puts an edge on things but he just shrugs his shoulders when I try it. But I do whatever he likes.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Naughty Student
My guy appreciates when I keep something on bcs I'm naked all the time. So putting on a sexy bra all day with him knowing what it looks like sort of primes him for the night and he likes that I keep it on.
I totally relate to this. Even though I don't wear lingerie all the time, my boyfriend definitely goes nuts when I do wear it.

I think it provides some context. My guy and I have been dating for 2 years so he sees me naked A LOT. After a while the nakedness can become so routine that you become slightly indifferent to it. The lingerie recontextualizes that nudity though - it's like HEY! Remember how hot this body is?

So I would say in a long term relationship I have definitely found lingerie useful as a reminder that YES, I'M SEXY. In new relationships I find it's kind of unnecessary - it often takes me longer to put the lingerie on than it does for the person to rip it off. In new relationships the interest is still really new and keen.
01/29/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
I wear lingerie a lot and my boyfriend wants me naked a lot.
We're long distance so he doesn't get to see much skin, plus I always wear clothing right after sex.

So, I'm content to pass out after sex in lingerie or something so it works for him ya know?

Plus I love dolling up.
01/29/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
I love wearing sexy lingerie because it makes ME feel good and that is when I feel sexy and then I am more confident to show it off. I am glad though that my partner is always telling me he wants to just see me naked! I am so grateful for him to say that. I love that he likes to see me and doesn't think I need to wear all kinds of crazy and usually uncomfortable outfits. I love doing it, but I love even more that he prefers just me. Naked. Anyways, I like it because it gives me a confidence boost and I'm more likely to get frisky and not be shy and cover up and not be my normal wild self. After being together for 5 years, I've always thought that he wouldn't be able to find me attractive any more, but thankfully it's not like that. I am a huge lingerie fan though and always have been. I collect really unique pieces that are hard to find and I always will, but usually I'm just naked old me. Lol
05/13/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by markeagleone
I love it when my wife wears sexy lingerie, but alot of times, I prefer her to just be naked. She is so beautiful and needs nothing to express that.
I love it both ways, especially if she starts by wearing something really sexy then one or both of us take it off of her. I prefer her naked when we actually start making love.
05/13/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
With my current partner, I know he prefers me to wear a little something.
07/17/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
My husband thinks there is nothing better than full on nakedness. He only likes it if we are going out and he knows it's on underneath. It forces him to think about ripping it off all night long.

If we are home he does not want any lingerie at all. Sometimes I like to torture him and wear a corset that takes a lot of work to get off.
07/17/2011
Contributor: TameTemptress TameTemptress
I love dressing up and wearing a little something sexy...but my husband takes it off so fast I end up feeling like it's just in the way, haha.
07/17/2011